thankyou for ur prompt reply doc and yeah i remember i did use a condom but my fever worries me as i felt guilty abt it ,, i was just thinking or becoming paranoid that the sex worker intented on not using one since i didn,t notice thk
Welcome to the forum.
I'm not sure I understand your question. Are you asking me whether or not you really used a condom? Sicne you intended to do so, you probably did -- so I don't know what you're worried about. But even without a condom, the odds of transmission of HIV from any single vaginal sex exposure are in the average range of 1 chance in 2,000, if your partner had HIV -- and most sex workers (in Indonesia or elsewhere) do not. It's very rare for anyone to catch HIV after any single sexual exposure.
The odds are overwhelming that your fever 10 days later are due to something other than HIV. Among other things, fever due to a new HIV infection lasts at least 1-2 weeks, and acetaminophen (Panadol and other brands) wouldn't have any effect on it. It is not possible for fever due to a new HIV infection to last only a day. And lymph node inflammation due to HIV doesn't cause armpit pain.
So no worries about HIV. Of course, if you remain concerned, you are free to be tested. If you do that, and if this is your only possible exposure, you can expect negative results.
Regards-- HHH, MD