I recently (2.5 weeks ago) engaged in naked frottage / body to body rubbing in a massage parlour with a female masseuse. There was no penetration, but there may have been genital to genital contact, (incidental) but for the main I believe it was torso to genital contact..I asked her status and she said she had nothing and had recently undergone her regular 3 month tests. I have read the forums and I believe this to be a low risk activity. I never engage in any unprotected intercourse or oral. Thing is I have a new partner now and we have had a frank discussion around our sex life & we plan on having unprotected intercourse but have both agreed to a full STD and HIV check before we go down that road. my question is twofold. 1. am I at risk of any STD from the frottage? I have had flu like sympptoms from day 10 onwards (outbreak of a cold sore, some headaches etc) but I am rationalising that this is due to the fact the weather has changed and I was exposed to some cold conditions. and 2 at what time period (post the above exposure) can I take tests that I can conclusively say are accurate and proceed (all things being equal) to an active sex life with my new girlfriend?
Welcome to the Forum. I'll be pleased to address your questions. Frottage is a form or masturbation and there are no cases of HIV that have EVER been proven to be transmitted through masturbation, even though it is is typical for persons engaged in masturbation of others to get their partner's genital secretions on each other. Not ever, even though this (mutual masturbation with exposure to partner's genital secretions) has occurred billions of times. The exposure you describe was a no risk event.
I agree with you that your symptoms are more likely to be coincidence than anything else.
It appears that you are in Australia where you will have access to combined HIV p24 antigen/HIV antibody tests (4th generation or "DUO") tests). These tests provide definitive results 4 weeks after exposure. Thus you can test for HIV, as well as other STIs at that time and be completely confident of the results.
Thank you for your quick reply, I'll wait till the 4 week mark for testing (wasn't sure if I should wait for 6,8,12 weeks etc) so that is a relief! My partners results came back all negative, based on that and my exposure, do you think we can engage in unprotected intercourse or should I wait until my results come back?
Hi Dr Hook sorry about coming back to this I'm just a little worried now about my incident. My "symptoms" cleared up quite suddenly around a week after I got them, again rationalising that work turned off the air con and turned on the heating! But more worryingly my partner informed me that on one of our first nights together we had unprotected intercourse. Exactly 12 days later she has sore throat, fatigue, aches, although no fever or rash and now 5 days later again she is feeling a lot better, like its suddenly lifting. I know their is sickness going around, there are a lot of people out of work at the moment, but it worries me that all the timings line up perfectly. I know you said no risk, I guess I'm just questioning everything now until I can get tested at 28 days! I'm not prone to panic but this has pushed me to the edge! I suppose I'm just looking for a reassurance that even with a tight foreskin that doesn't retract their is no possibility of transmission from contact with fluids. I will be testing this weekend so will know one way or another next week but I'm kinda spooked now by it all....
You keep repeating your questions as though that would change the facts. The exposure you described was a no risk exposure for HIV. There is no reason for concern. This is my final answer. Further repetitive questions will be deleted without comment. EWH
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