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Don´t want to pass it on

I got a bj off a girl unexpected and vey quick. Neither of us seem to have any cuts but she swallowed. She doesn´t know I have hiv, should I tell her to have a test, I don´t want to scare her as she is having a bad year already and I don´t plan to see her again
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This forum is for HIV+ members to connect and support each other.  It is not a place for debate or questions about HIV from those who are worried they may have it.

MedHelp encourages everyone to protect themselves when engaging in sexual activity.  It's a good idea to assume that everyone has something they may pass on, and protect yourself accordingly.  We also encourage people to have open communication with their sexual partners, and to discuss STDs, but we know that doesn't always happen, and some may be perfectly honest but not know they have an STD.

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If oral is as low risk as you say would it be best ot to scare her.
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Irish, not worried about the law. I keep it to myself unless I feel I have to. This was a once off where a girl kept coming on to me. I want to do the right thing but keep it telling her would make things hard for both of us espically if it is unecessary.  
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What state do you live in and I'll give you the disclosure law for that state.
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I AM HIV PSITIVE
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This is a forum for individuals who are HIV positive or have AIDS to connect and support each other.
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