i just got my second test back confirming i'm hiv pos.My question is about the drugs and there side effects ,and how far they have come along. The internet has a annoying way of looking at all the worst case sanarios so im trying to stay off all the different sites written by who knows. also I have a wife who is hiv neg ,and pregnant And we don't plan to have sex for at least six months ,and i was wondering what are some safe forms of sex that will keep her safe