HIV Anxiety Support User Group
No risk exposure but still anxious
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No risk exposure but still anxious

Hello guys,

I'm a 17 years old Chinese male. I'm still a virgin, I masturbate quite a few times. I have foreskin that covers my penis even I'm erected. Anyhow here's a problem:

Yesterday, I mastubated in my room in the morning. I'm not sure was there a cut or not. After lunch, i went out with some of my friends in Shanghai. They lured into a erotic massage parlor. She is highly possible a hiv infector, she's really cheap and she's really thin. After 5 minutes of casual massage, I decided to took some pictures of her virgina. It was dark so i could see clearly, she didn't put her fingers inside but she did put her hand above her virgina, i didn't see any sort of fluid. Later I lied on the bed and thought about STDs, at that moment, her nipple touched my urethra and foreskin because before I mentioned I like girls who had big boobs that are good for a boobjob. I felt pain for some reason, i'm not sure. Probably it was just my sensitive penis. From that moment I decided not to do anything further. I went home and took a shower. There wasn't any ARS symptom, but I do find some sort of rash on my both forearm which lead me to this forum and seek for help.

Is it possible for me to get hiv? What might be that pain when her nipple contact with my penis? Should I take a test? Is that rash a hiv symptom?

Thank you
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Although TEAK told me it's okay, but some how i think he's too radical, Can you guys help me? I'm pretty anxious.
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I dont mean anything bad, its just this forum is so different from what i heared in china. Basically the chinese govt and cdc claimed that any types of sexual contact could lead to hiv infection.... im still anxious.
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I dont see anything here is even close to a concern buds
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So u believe im going to be negative even i have the rash on both of my upper arm
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Just to be clear let us asume she has hiv and shes at a phase thats most infectous
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I would not even test. Hiv is passed on by unprotected sex, not by touching.
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What I heard from the Internet is that wounded tissue contact with fluid will cause the infection of HIV, long foreskin could increase the chance of possibility. Let's assume I have wounded tissue, and I do have long foreskin, although I don't seem to have ars symptom, I'm still pretty scared since some of my factors do qualify, although I don't know was there any fluid or not. I'm pretty anxious.
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No No NO. What you read is incorrcet and we dont assume anything only facts.

Fact, you didnt have a wound.
Fact a nipple is not a risk of HIV transmission.
Fact, their was no fluids from here.

There is nothing here which gives any cause for concern,
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Thank you Apollo, your argument is powerful and persuasive. Although Im still a little concern, your words have comfort me a lot. Previously you indicated that a test is not neccessary, so you are sure that i will not get hiv from this event and i can assure you that there are no sexual engagements with anyone in the past two years but only self masturbation and that event i described above. Also, three years ago i receive. 2non erotic massage from 2 differnt massage parlors which at the end, both  of them lured me to touch her boobs (and i did). I used one of the towel which appeared a poor quality and public towel provided by one parlor who soaked in to mild hot water and clean my body after the oil massage. She then intended to give a handjob using some unknown status papertowel, wraped around my penis. Before anything happens i said no.  
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If HIV was passed on by touching, then most of the world would have HIV or of course we would no shake hands and never enjoy the moments of "touching boobs " ;)
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Lol...thanks for the help apollo, really apreciated . From now on, for my own future, i will not go to places like this ever again and focus on my acdemics. Maybe ill give u update later on.
thank u really much

Best of luck

Turtel shell
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However, i realized its hard for me to shake it in a short period. Do u have anything to recommend for me to do in order to shake it as fast as possible?
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Except for testing, do u recommend anything else?
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Best advice.

1, forget those places as you have already said, its creating more concern than good.

2, Well, if your acdemic you facts and logic. Never in 30 years has anyone got HIV from touching boobs because its not possible as their is no way of HIV to get into your blood stream. HIV is passed on inside the body, it really is as simple as that.

So looking at the facts, you can be certain you have zero risk and will move on from this the moment you forget at HIV sites and go out and start enjoying life buds.
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U r right...probably just because its something about tissues and i freak out. You believe i will not get hiv, i should believe in myself too.
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Yo Apollo...new update. I mentioned about some sort of rash on both of my arm, they're on the upper arms, which is the part closer to my shoulder... i can't help thinking about it, what should i do?
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See a doctor, we all get rashes, no idea why but its not HIV. If you get a cold, its not HIV. If you get a headace, its not HIV.

Basically, if you get ill its not HIV. You have been ill before and you will be ill again, if you hadnt, you would be a medical mystey

What ever happens its not going to be HIV related, thats stone cold fact buds. Time to put this to bed and move on and enjoy life.
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Thank you Apollo, u made me feel better, sorry for you to waste time on me where there are more anxious patients who faced risks that were exteremely higher than mine. Though i'm not going to test, i believe that i'm okay.
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I wanted to know, personally, are you confident that I will be negative after this incident and I guarantee nothing ever happen after that? Let's just say if you're in my situation.
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Well you do not need to test, its pointless buds. You would have more chance of Aliens coming to your house, taking you to mars, then coming to earth, winning the lottery 3 times in row and then being killed by an electric shock from a toaster.
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This thread has gone long enough- Apollo has been more than patient in addressing the OP's issue. It is apparent that answers to anxiety-driven questions are just leading to more repetitive anxiety-driven questions, therefore, this thread is CLOSED to further comments. The OP does not have an HIV concern and therefore does not require testing.

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