No visible blood, no semen, no glove, and all worried

[Dumbnut]

I frenched kissed a guy, gave him a hand job and put the tip of my finger in his butt. Can i get Hiv from any of these? I did not see any visible blood in his mouth or around the anus or penis. I didnt have any scars on my hand, or memorable sores in my mouth, but my skin was peeled alittle on my lips and fingers. I keep being told that if there were it is a risk of infection if blood was present in any way. It has been a month since dealing with potentially infected person. I feel after reading several forums here that I have nothing to worry about. But now I have a small lumb near my Adams apple. I am still a virgin, Bisexual, but it scares me to think that something is wrong with me.
I still believe there is little to no risk in HIV, However I wonder if any other STD risk are present, without seeing any bumbs, sores, cold sores, or any type of scaring.
I have a sore throat, a small lump underneath my skin above my Adams apple (not visible to eyes but can be felt by finger)
Can someone please tell me my risk of HIV, and considering the conditions, my risk for other STDs. I just started Dating and now I'm to scared to continue, without knowledge.

[joggen]

Any competent doctor will tell you that you don't need testing for HIV. I think your best bet is to seek a mental health professional.

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[Dumbnut]

I never had sex but should I get tested? Cause I feel like I caught a cold now and I never got sick before. I have a runny nose, I sneeze, and people keep telling me that the lump in my throat is my Adams apple but it was never their before, or at least I never noticed it. I work the night shift and while I was there I randomly started sweating. I keep telling myself that it was just hot but it seemed so random, that I can not ignore it. I felt a little weak after wards. The feeling went away after I stepped out for some air. I know I must sound really stupid but I just feel comfortable anymore, as if the world has ended for me and I just don't know it yet. The things I don't know make me feel so insecure, the event makes me feel like I deserve to be punished. No matter how many times I told myself there was no risk, another part tells me, not only was there risk but also that I have it now.
Please give me just a little more advice. One part thinks HIV the other Hypochondriac. Both parts acknowledges the symptoms. I don't know what to do. I don't want to infect my dream girl when I meet her, and I don't want to die either.Should I forget or should I pay the doctor a visit?

[Dumbnut]

Thank you, I want to get tested but I was so afraid that I would have caught it. I always told myself that I would wait to have sex with the woman I love, after we got married. This only reinforces that.
I want to thank you so much, cause I can rest easier, I can breathe again, and I wont cry my heart out anymore. In my entire life that one moment has been my biggest regret, and now it wont cost me everything.Thank you

[joggen]

Probably just a garden-variety sore throat.

[Dumbnut]

Thank you, but do you know anything that I could have caught that resembles what I have? Cause my paranoia is very disturbing.

[joggen]

The only activities that transmit HIV are unprotected vaginal or anal sex. If you avoid those activities you will not catch HIV. It is that simple.