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Please help me!

I had unprotected anal sex, me as the bottom . I know, i was stupid, crazy,and I learned my lesson , how ever i cant stop being anxious. We had sex 5 times,on  sep 29,oct 2nd oct 4th,oct 6th and the last one on nov 3rd. I got tested for hiv on dec 11th and dec 14th (6weeks after the last exposure,11weeks after the first exposure)amd both tests were negative.  he got tested on july for all std and hiv amd everything came back negative,but what if he had sex between then and got hiv??. But I am very scared, i had a runny nose like 2weeks after the last exposure,like a cold , not a flu, then my 2 glands swolled under the chin between the trought and they have being swolled since then till today . Like 5 weeks after my last exposure got a pain in my ears. I went to the dictor and got a cbc and everything was fine, which makes me think that all my sysmtoms are hiv related!!
I cant eat well, or sleep. Ive lost 10lbs.

Both of my tests were rapid hiv 1/2 type.

Iam getting retested but im so scared this will be a positive test.
Please help me,need to move on,
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Not at all. That Volume of tests is more than conclusive. You dont have HIV.
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Well, here is my story
Got tested after 5 ,6,7 1/2 , 9 , 10 1/2 , and 13 weeks,
All negatives, but they were with the mouth swap , are those less accurate ??
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A 6 week negative isn't going to change.
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