help me

[minam56]

hi guys
please help me ,i am very worried and anxious, i cant sleep
yesterday i had sex with my new boy friend,although he used condom but during our annal sex, suddenly it bleed a little and no entry occurred and condom was not burst or s.th else but since he touched the condom by his hand i am so much worried may be the condom was infected ,he said he is not infected by HIV but i am not sure because he was very scared by that bleeding,although it was a little blood, meanwhile we kissed long time each other?am i infected??help me please

[minam56]

thankssss

[Apollo1971]

Well you can only get infected if somone has HIV and the chances of him having HIV are 1%, which means its very unlikley he even has HIV.

You also cannot get infected from your own blood..

As he wore a condom, neither of you will or can ever be at risk of HIV.

So to make clear, no you had NO risk at all.

[minam56]

yes it was my blood,and no entry occurred but he was so scared of that damn blood. I was concerned may be the condom was infected and that short contact with my blood caused me infected or at risk too,i was really anxious,I have never experience such a risk before and i was sure i was not at risk of HIV ..but i am not sure about him...in case being do you still believe i am not infected...thank you

[Apollo1971]

Well the blood would be from you not him. His penis head was covered so neither of you would be a risk.

If your both planning on being togther, why dont you both take a HIV test and neither of you will have any concerns for the future.