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guy slips penis in when fingering
Dear All,
I was making out with a guy friend (we are currently dating), we discussed our boundaries before and we decided we are not ready for sex yet. He respects my decision. During our make out, he fingered me and afterwards I gave him a handjob. I was just afraid his penis may have slipped into my vagina without me knowing as it was very intense fingering (felt like a dildo in me). We both had two beers each so we were not so drunk, just felt more outgoing. I was wearing long leggings and a dress and we made out with me sitting on his lap facing him in a dimly lit park (cowgirl position). I don't think these clothes would be easy to shift away just so a penis could enter my vagina. I asked him and he reassured me nothing happened and I honestly couldn't recall having a penis in me. I only remembered seeing his penis when I gave him a handjob. Do I require testing? Would I have known if a penis went into me despite being slightly drunk? Thank you all and sorry for lengthy post.
I was making out with a guy friend (we are currently dating), we discussed our boundaries before and we decided we are not ready for sex yet. He respects my decision. During our make out, he fingered me and afterwards I gave him a handjob. I was just afraid his penis may have slipped into my vagina without me knowing as it was very intense fingering (felt like a dildo in me). We both had two beers each so we were not so drunk, just felt more outgoing. I was wearing long leggings and a dress and we made out with me sitting on his lap facing him in a dimly lit park (cowgirl position). I don't think these clothes would be easy to shift away just so a penis could enter my vagina. I asked him and he reassured me nothing happened and I honestly couldn't recall having a penis in me. I only remembered seeing his penis when I gave him a handjob. Do I require testing? Would I have known if a penis went into me despite being slightly drunk? Thank you all and sorry for lengthy post.
Hi there, my anxiety got the better of me and I tested with a SD Bioline duo 3.0 at a clinic, it was 12 post exposure and it was negative. Do I need further testing? Is this result atleast highly reassuring?
Hey there, yes I asked him and he said he didn't. I am just being paranoid, plus the outfit I was wearing would require me to remove it before penetration with a penis could occur. he just used his fingers. I think it would take a lot of skill for him to pull down my tight leggings and underwear hold it there and place his penis in. I shall move on thank you
Well, I can't really tell you if his penis penetrated you. I'm not a female, but I would assume you would know the difference between fingers and a penis...at least the women I've been with said they could tell the difference.
Second, if unprotected penetration did occur, you could have been exposed. However, HIV is VERY, VERY rare in the US. Only 1.1 million people out of the US are HIV+ out of a population of apprx 310 million, That is less than 1%. HIV is even less rare in the heterosexual population. The odds that your partner was even infected with HIV are very low. Third, HIV transmission from a one time, unprotected encounter with an unknown status person carries about a 1 in a million odds of infection. These odds are accepted to be for a circumcised male partner, as a female, your odds are slightly lower due to being the receptive partner. But, even if you halved those odds you would be looking at odds of 1 in 500,000. You literally have better odds of getting struck by lightening.
And, finally. If your partner was not HIV+, then you simply had no risk. The easiest thing to do would be to contact him about getting STD tested.
Truthfully, I don't think he penetrated you with his penis. I think you would no without a doubt if he had. Therefore, you had no risk and I see no reason for you to test on account of this incident.
Second, if unprotected penetration did occur, you could have been exposed. However, HIV is VERY, VERY rare in the US. Only 1.1 million people out of the US are HIV+ out of a population of apprx 310 million, That is less than 1%. HIV is even less rare in the heterosexual population. The odds that your partner was even infected with HIV are very low. Third, HIV transmission from a one time, unprotected encounter with an unknown status person carries about a 1 in a million odds of infection. These odds are accepted to be for a circumcised male partner, as a female, your odds are slightly lower due to being the receptive partner. But, even if you halved those odds you would be looking at odds of 1 in 500,000. You literally have better odds of getting struck by lightening.
And, finally. If your partner was not HIV+, then you simply had no risk. The easiest thing to do would be to contact him about getting STD tested.
Truthfully, I don't think he penetrated you with his penis. I think you would no without a doubt if he had. Therefore, you had no risk and I see no reason for you to test on account of this incident.
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