oral sex with an S&M prostitute

doctor,

I believe I've made a terrible mistake.  First week of November, I went and saw a high riSwollen Lymph Nodessk prostitute.

She is of Colombian decent who briefly told me she was from Miami and recently moved to N.VA. I went inside and received condom protected oral sex until I ejeculated. I believe oral sex may have lasted 8 to 12 mins but I'm not sure.  She practices in a safe neighborhood so but I can't say if she's an IV drug users.  I did not engage in vaginal sex or anal. Today I got tested which puts me at slightly at 6 weeks.  I tested negative but today I wanted to light headed after visting the testing center. After which, I  had a bigmac and felt immedietly like I wanted to throw up. I feel very tired and called out sick tomorrow.  I don't have temperature or any swollen lymph nodes or any rashes.  Your advice is helpful.

[H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D.]

Welcome to the HIV forum.

The important information here is that your HIV test was negative.  A negative antibody test 6 weeks after exposure is a highly reliable indication you were not infected.  Your symptoms sound exactly like the physical manifestations of anxiety, nothing more than that.

I believe your cute wording is meant to convey that you believe your partner had enlarged lymph nodes and therefore you think she has HIV.  First, I don't trust your assessment -- assuming you are not a health professional -- that she has enlarged nodes.  Second, if she does, there are many things other than HIV that can cause it.  Third, even if she has HIV, you had safe sex:  condom-protected vaginal, and transmission by oral sex is very rare, if it occurs at all.

So congratulations on two accounts:  Being responsible in having only safe sex; and in not having HIV.  All is well.

Good luck--  HHH, MD

[Ariel439]

Please apologize for my English.  My original story is as follows for readers.  Thanks for your quick feedback.

I believe I've made a terrible mistake.  First week of November, I went and saw a high S&M prostitute. I went inside and received condom protected oral sex until I ejeculated in her mouth with the condom intact. I believe oral sex may have lasted 8 to 12 mins but I'm not sure.

I went and got tested yesterday at an hiv clinic in Washington D.C. and came back neg.  After the test, I ate a big mac and felt drowzy for the rest of the day.  Your right this could be anxiety related.  

About the prostitute she was an independent girl not high-up escort agency which puts her more likely of having HIV.

[H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D.]

This doesn't provide any important information you didn't say above.  If you want comments from other forum users, it is better to use the HIV community forum.

"About the prostitute she was an independent girl not high-up escort agency which puts her more likely of having HIV."  Irrelevant:  the test was negative.

That's all for this thread.