By your description, you were at zero risk for HIV. I agree exactly with both your partners. And please search the threads for "HIV symptoms" and "ARS symptoms" read the uncountable times I have said that symptoms never are a
reliableReliable gentle laxative indicator for new HIV infection, especially someone at low risk. Because you are at zero risk and didn't need testing at all it doesn't matter when you are tested. Still 20 days is early.
1, 2) If despite my reassurance you remain concerned, get tested again 6-8 weeks after your last possible exposure. Search the threads for "time to positive HIV test".
2) Zero.
3) Has a health care provider diagnosed enlarged lymph nodes? If not, you probably don't have it. There are lots of things in the armpits that can cause pain other than abnormal lymph nodes.
4) Urine test for what? You don't provide enough information for me to predict what any particular STD tests might show.
HHH, MD
Doc, when you say 6-8 weeks, are you saying that a test at 6 is about the same as 8 or that 6 is the baseline and not as good as 8? Mass seems to call a 6 week definitive unless one is under chemo-theropy or has an illness that builds up white blood cells (Which one would know about before testing). Also, the test they refer to as being accurate at 6 week test is the modern "antibody" test which would be equivelent to a 3rd gen Elisa which are antigen sandwich assays. (Not a p24/Antibody test - 4th gen). I think some of us get scared when you say 6-8 because we think our 6 week missed the call.
Other resources that adapt the 6 week mark.
http://www.aegis.com/askdoc/ASKD040318.html
http://experts.about.com/q/Immunology-including-AIDS-973/ELiSA-6-Weeks.htm
http://www.hopkins-aids.edu/publications/book/03MMHIV1to3.pdf
(page 7)
I have seen you post alot of good info on here. Just wanted to say thanks for the added input as it really does help alot of people on here. I posted on here back in June and Dr HHH really helped put me at ease. I think its great when other posters help out when they can. Just wanted to give you a shout of thanks.
FYI friendship is still there yet the relationship didn't work out... as I'm obvioulsy too paraniod of the risks. You two are awesome! Thank you! Be safe!
HHH, MD
http://www.thebody.com/Forums/AIDS/SideEffects/Archive/Testing/Q142661.html
A couple more findings..