3 chances to be at risk... but by how much!?

I gave oral sex to a promiscuous guy(let's assume he's +) in his anus.  Actual tongue went in his anus.

Secondly, I performed felletio and he pulled out before ejaculation... but without thinking I went down on him right after he pulled out.  I'm sure I had bleeding gums that day too.

Finally... and this is the scariest!!!  I then masterbaited myself WHILE rubbing his penis(which was already soaked in semen) all over mine.  I ejaculated while doing this.  I do have genital herpes.  Not sure if I had an outbreak then.

Since this I've had EVERY single symptom of hiv!!!  I will admit I've been under anxiety.

How much at risk am I!?  

Sorry for being so gross but thanks in advance!!!!

[wonderingaloud]

I am going to try to answer but I am no expert........the anal/oral no risk except catching something intestinal

The fellatio was fine until you went back for more.  I think if there was semen there you put yourself at slight risk

Mutual masturbation no risk but with semen present if you got it inside you somehow from the urethra there was a risk as well but I think this to be a difficult thing to do.

Forget symptoms they mean nothing could you get in contact with this person and find out his status?  I am sure you are fien but here was some slight risk.....to be sure wait and have testing at appropriate times.  90 days for definitive  can also have one earlier to give you some peace but wait six weeks or the result means little to nothing.  Be well.

One more thing you said assume he is + why?  what would lead you to believe that?  If you did not know beforehand change your ways my friend you must ask beforehand track him down and go take test together or at least find out his status

[Thatguy300]

I got tested via clinic 20 minute rapid test and it was negative at week 6.

Like seriously, am I going to be okay? What does herpes play in all this?  If herpes can spread by skin contact can't hiv also? Especially when Im rubbin my penis with semen!? If a guy can get infected by penetrating an infected person's anus, how is masterbaiting with the guy's semen in hand any different!? I'm sorry just nervous.

[Teak]

No risk of contracting HIV from rimming.