3 years later HIV?

[NYKMelo7]

I lost my virginity in my sophomore year to a old middle school friend. We had unprotected sex and I cum'ed inside her. Well I remember that two weeks later I had flu like symptoms.  During these 3 years I have never gotten a lip blister,  mouth blisters or any bumps on my penis , no swollen lymph nodes,  no episodes of night sweats , no joint pain.  I also had to take bloodwork has a part of requirement for my college and everything came out ok so I was wondering if HIV was part of the blood work that I had to take?  

I also had unprotected sex with my next gf 2 times and now she's pregnant with her bf son. She hasn't said to me that she's HIV+ has I know hospitals check for that during a pregnancy so im using that as a calming measure

[zamzam4]

No, it is not conclusive for HIV.  For that you need an HIV test which is a blood test.  You can take it now and it will be conclusive for HIV.

[NYKMelo7]

I have taken a urine test recently for STD's and my doctor said I had Chlamydia and nothing else so is that conclusive?

[nursegirl6572]

Any time you have unprotected sex, there is a risk, therefore you should be tested.  A test at any time now will be conclusive.

Your overall risk is low in this scenario, but a risk is a risk.

Your college blood work would not have included an HIV test, and yes, while it's true that MOST pregnant women are tested, you don't determine your risk by someone else's test.