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A year ago....still scared and afraid testing...!

Dear Experts...

please analyse my risk and situation...

one year ago.. I had a sex with CSW in amsterdam.... after 4 weeks or so.. started feeling all the initial symptoms like tiredness, severe cold, headache, red burning eyes, body and muscle pains, lost my appetite etc.... then after few weeks swollen lymph glands on my shoulders, groin area, back side of both knees and thrush on tongue.. they all still exists... and felt like constipation aswell, stomach upset, nausea...

I am still worried about the symptoms like bodily and muscle pains, oral thrush, swollen lymph glands and eyes burning and redness, Nausea in the mornings still persists on me....I am unable to do my daily routines, all the time feeling tired...

here, the sex was protected, but the condom was loose and my penis was already lubricated with my precum like thing b4 the actual sex begins, because of anxiety of being involved in this kind of situation for the first time in life... because of that the condom wasn't tight and not complete ejection(was small)... and I ejaculated with in seconds time in the condom during sex and still continued for few more seconds.. As all the episode just lasted for only 1 or 2 minutes time...

So here I am still afraid of getting tested.... I am unable to lead my normal life... please analyse my situation and please tell me how risky was my situation is...??
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No, again you do not have an HIV concern.
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So all U guys are ruling out the HIV concern.. might be some other right....!! at least happy to hear this after long time..... Thanks Guys....
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Stress can cause hundreds of symptoms--if you are concerned go and have an STD screen--this is an HIV prevention forum and you don't have an HIV concern.
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Hi..

I don't understand, how come stress causes all these lot of symptoms... lymph nodes swelling, oral thrush, colored urine, body pains like these...how... or any other STD like so to be tested...????
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You have not been paying attention--you do not have an HIV concern and your symptoms are related to something else--my guess is stress.
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So.. U assure me that, these symptoms are not at all relate to HIV any more.. coz... where ever I go, where ever I see in internet, it is directing me to this deadliest one.. SO.. I am literally dying every moment bcoz of these persisting symptoms.. So finally for peace of mind, one fine day I will make myself to be ready for the testing...

And here at this point I want to know,as is there any one like me with all existing symptoms but at testing got negative result....!! plz put forward ur stories for some ones motivation...!!! Thanks....

Thanks for ur valuable time teak...
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at the time of intercourse, my penis was too small than regular and the condom was big on me and was too looooose....and I ejaculated in her with in condom, as I doubt that it might have come out or leaked out of condom. can this thing will happen???  and also there was precum b4 the intercourse, because of anxiety... were all these things put me into risk of HIV...?????
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If you have STD questions, you need to post them in the STD forum. You do not have an HIV concern.
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Dear teak....

Thank U very much for ur prompt reply.. but since then I am very much stressed every moment.. I am not able to concentrate on my career and life, I am 28 male, single and need to start my career..

I am stuck up there... as these persisting symptoms like oral thrush, lymph nodes swelling (some times pains alot), dark yellow colored Urine, burning -- since then... are not letting me to move on with my life...

Or otherwise these symptoms resembles any other STD's.. which needs doc's attention..... please guide me what to do with... I am really scared to get tested.. please motivate me regarding this.... and Y these symptoms are still on me.. ????? please help me out guys.... I am stressed stresssedd stresssedddddddd..............!!
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You never had an exposure and your symptoms have nothing to do with HIV.
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