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AM i @ RISK

HI i had an exposure on feb 1 it was just 2 min oral performed by pros got test @ aug7 2013 tridot method test was negative ,it was in tesla diagnostics www.tesladiagnostics.com, now about me im heavily built over 120 kgs i did not see any symptoms so far but recently i had pain near the buttocks right above the rectum and went to doctor was diagnosed with type 2 diabetes and higblood pressure now since september i was feeling like fatigued,sivere head ache and tired all the time my main concern is after this exposure i had sex couple of times with my wife and it was unprotected but not ejaculated inside and its on march now i am feared as i have a baby who drink milk near her mother breast feed ,so should i be worried any possibilites of spread from me to my wife and to little one im so scared ,the anxiety and stress is getting more day by day please some body ,,let me go but no one should be infected cos me now i had bad cold and cough and swollen lympnode under my ear left side should i test once again the influenza cold is spread to my wife baby as its weather change october  suggest me some thing should i be worried of this  my test was done in window 188 days ,was it ok and by thinking alot of some thing will it cause headache alot
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186166 tn?1385259382
you can't give your wife something that you DONT have


FROM THE HIV EXPERTS HERE AT MEDHELP:

"As you know from other posts about oral sex, our stance is that giving or receiving oral sex is not a risk for HIV.  Some others suggest that there is an appreciable risk of HIV from oral sex however, there are no convincing scientific reports which support these statements.  The presence of a burn in your mouth, or a sore, or ingestion of blood does not change this.  Still no risk an no reason for testing."  DR HOOK

"As far as HIV is concerned, there is no known risk of getting HIV from performing oral sex on an infected partner, even if that person's genital secretions get into your eyes or if you swallow"  DR HOOK

There is no debate (among experts) about the HIV risks associated with oral sex.  The risk is so low that almost nobody who cares for HIV infected patients has ever had a patient believed to have been infected that way.  Among experts, it's a semantic issue about using terms like "no risk" and "very low risk".  There is no difference between my or Dr. Hook's use of "low risk" and other experts' "no risk".
DR. HANDSFIELD

"And oral sex is basically safe sex -- completely safe with respect to HIV and although not zero risk for other STDs, the chance of infection is far lower than for unprotected vaginal or anal sex.  Please educate yourself about the real risks.  If you stick with oral sex and condom-protected vaginal or anal sex, you have no HIV worries and very little worry about other STDs. "   DR HANDSFIELD

"I am sure you can find lots of people who belive that HIV is transmitted by oral sex, but you will not find scientific data to support this unrealistic concern..."   DR HOOK

"HIV is not spread by touching, masturbation, oral sex or condom protected sex."- DR. HOOK

in the public HIV Prevention forum of MedHelp, TEAK and the other moderators maintain that oral sex in all forms is a zero risk activity. Would you agree with this assessment?  
I TOTALLY AGREE / DR GARCIA

The observation on thousand and thousand of observations is that HIV is not spread by oral sex (of any sort).  DR. HOOK

"With regard to the question you ask, I will repeat, as I’ve said more times than I can think- there are NO credible cases in which persons have acquired HIV through performance of oral sex- none!!.  The chance that you will be the first is ridiculously low.  You are more likely to be hit by lightening while reading my reply to you. DR HOOK

"HIV is not spread by masturbation, through oral sex, through kissing or other casual contact." DR HOOK

"There is no credible evidence that HIV is spread through oral sex, with or without the presence of cuts or blood in the persons mouth."- DR HOOK

"Oral sex. there is no evidence that HIV is spread through giving or receiving oral sex"- DR HOOK

"HIV is not spread through oral sex."  DR HOOK

"HIV is not spread through giving or receiving oral sex"   DR HOOK
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480448 tn?1426948538
No one is being "silent"....we're not here 24/7.  

Nothing has changed, including our answers.  The fact that you're STILL worried about HIV after all this time has passed indicates an anxiety issue.  

Even if you refuse to accept that you never had a risk, your test proves without a shadow of a doubt that you don't have HIV.  There's nothing more we can tell you.
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You have been answered over and over again.
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can some body reply please quick responded community being silent on this topic
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hi all guys im so sorry if i really bug you after long time since then i have no issue read my story above to reply or suggest me since then i lost almost 13 kg  and always have neck stifness which is terrible and mouth ulcers comes very often similar to my wife white coated tongue n etc please advise me every one say oral no risk and why all this happening to me please reply for Gods sake and kill my agony for good even now i have an ulcer under lip huh
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480448 tn?1426948538
PLEASE get yourself some help.  We've told you over and over and over that you can move on with your life without concern about HIV, but you already know that.  You're stuck in the trap of seeking reassurance to quell your anxiety, which isn't how you address your anxiety.  That just keeps the cycle going.  
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Read what you have been advised many many many times.
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i asked last question sir can i move on after all these symptoms simple question sir
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You are violating the posting guidelines.
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why were my replies getting deleted nursegirl and vance repliued then when i confirmed its been removed i asked we both wife n husband have white tongue since few months and yeast infection to wife when i asked this vance told reread what have been said and nurse girl the same when i asked can i move on with the life now they removed my comments
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why were my replies getting deleted nursegirl and vance repliued then when i confirmed its been removed i asked we both wife n husband have white tongue since few months and yeast infection to wife when i asked this vance told reread what have been said and nurse girl the same when i asked can i move on with the life now they removed my comments
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You don't have an HIV concern.
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what you say is symtoms are not related to my concern??its all about the general symptoms which is cos anxiety ...
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What you "expect"??? You have been answered over and over again. This is called excessive posting.
See a Dr for your symptoms.
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hi vance that not what im expecting from experts i have questions why these symptoms when thry dont have it ever earlier
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Reread everything you have been told.
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im comming up with same concern as after one yaer after my exposure i dont feel any symptoms but my wife ha always mouth ulcers in mouth and 16 months baby had always cough and cold all the time now im worried what should be done as the symptoms are sivere and im not able to take those situations seeing at home i always think about my exposure and thus the reason im facing all this please help
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Teak amazing job  appreciate from the bottom and to the core i have been thru your profile ,is it true positive since 1984 ?and you helping others not to get into that situation shows your nature  truly mesmarised god bless you your reward in heaven will be awsome
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thank you
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You never had an exposure.
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any body there
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hello lizzie i know thi forums are not related to symptoms its all about info on hiv last  question from me is it possible to get ARS after one year of exposure unable to get rid of fever in the evenings almost daily ,head ache ,cough and bad cold and body pains how this could be when i got tested negative either it must be diagnosis fault or i may trust u ppl sayin no risk for oral sex which ever i coud be now im the suferer please reply is it possible to get these syptoms exactly after 1 year now
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186166 tn?1385259382
a cough and cold are very common occurrences...especially this time of the year.

last time...YOU HAD NO RISK  (and that's a good thing)

accept your negative status and move on with your life
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i know i dont have it but  why am i feeling all the the symptoms now i have cold and cough since a week and a lymph node on the neck which is not going  at all  
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186166 tn?1385259382
you had NO risk ! !
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