Advice Needed

[Peter1986]

Hello Doctor,
I have an issue. This is the reason why I am here. A couple of days ago I slept with a girl. I always use condoms during the intercourse. But one thing that happened on that day makes me worry. After my climax I stayed in her vagina for a few seconds. Then I removed my penis and noticed that I had no condom on. I was very shocked because I thought that I had lost it during the intercourse. But I saw that the condom was hanging out of her. Half was inside her and half was hanging out. I pulled out the condom and switched on the light and saw that my sperm was fully inside the condom. Moreover the condom had no damage. I am just confused how the condom could slip off and hung half in her and half outside. Was this a risky exposure? I hope I was not without protection inside her during the sex. But I think you would notice that.
I hope you can give me an advice doctor.
Regards

[LIZZIE LOU]

something that happens frequently!  when you are withdrawing...please hold on to the base of the condom so that it doesnt slip off.

the condom hanging out of her and the fact that your ejaculation was inside the condom, proves that you were protected til the end and that it did indeed come off while withdrawing.

no risk and testing is not warranted :)

oooooops...forgot to tell you that this is not the doctor's forum.

[Peter1986]

hey LIZZIE LOU,
thx for your reply. so I shouldn't be worried? one more question. would you notice as a man and as a woman when you lose the condom during the intercourse? I heard in that case the condom would be inside the vagina. am I right?
regards

[LIZZIE LOU]

there is a DEFINITE difference in the "feel" when using a condom as opposed to not using one.

think about it LOGICALLY...if the condom HAD come off during intercourse...how do you think that it would have ejaculate INSIDE it?  i know your aim is not THAT good :)

[Peter1986]

haha how do you know that lizzie? :)
yeah, I think you are right. I am about to make up things and worry myself. I read that in some cases the condom stays inside the vagina when losing it. I dont know if that is possible :)

[LIZZIE LOU]

stop reading...you are only adding fuel to the fire of your anxiety.

no risk...

[Peter1986]

okay thx

[Peter1986]

hey
i wanna go tomorrow to the clinic and do a test
it would be 8 days after this exposure. would be the result conclusive?

[Teak]

If you lost the condom on withdraw the test would be conclusive because you didn't have a risk.

[Peter1986]

shall i do a test 2morrow?

[LIZZIE LOU]

IF you had a risk...and IF you needed to test...3 months would be conclusive.

you did not have a risk and you do not need to test.

[Peter1986]

what about a PCR? more than 10 days have left now. shall i do a PCR?

[Teak]

PCR tests are not approved diagnostic tests.

[Peter1986]

but how comes that they say that a pcr is conclusive after 15 days?
is this wrong?

[Teak]

Yes it's wrong.

[Peter1986]

i have a qustn. i had an encouter with a sexworker. I fingered her. is this a risk to me. who knows. maybe i had cuts or something.

[Teak]

No it was not a risk to you.

[Peter1986]

hey i got today my test back and it came negative. it was an antibody. but 13 days after that. i dont know if this is secure

[horneyboy]

Peter, you're worrying about nothing.  You had no exposure.  You are not going to get HIV from fingering her; just not going to happen.  As far as the condom slippage, it is quite easily explained by the fact that after a man ejaculates the penis softens and loses diameter making the condom likely to slip off.  Lizzie is right, if you stay inside the woman after you climax, one of the two of you needs to hold the base of the condom or it will slide off your penis.  But you said yourself your semen was in the condom, so you know where your penis was at all times; it was protected and your risk is essentially zero.

[aardvarkadmirer]

a two week HIV antibody test has a 50% chance of being correct BUT it does not matter since you did not have a risk. Consider seeing a mental health professional for HIV anxiety.