Advice please!!!

I was dating a girl for over a month, she had braces on her teeth, which she had for over 2 months. Three days prior to french kissing her with a lot of tongue involved, i had a new toothbrush and this caused cuts in my gums. While kissing, i would put my finger in her mouth and rub the saliva on my white t-shirt to see if there would be any traces of blood. I did this 3-4 times and checked my t-shirt and i did not see any red spot or colour on the t-shirt.

My main worry is that after the kissing incident, i did go home and brush my teeth prior to sleeping and out of curiosity took a white tissue and rubbed against the gum, the tissue did have little blood in it. Could i have got hiv from this exposure especially because of my gum which had cuts?

[RainLover71]

You are clearly not listening to the answers that I have provided you,please accept the facts,you had no risk and I have explained why.

[RainLover71]

NO,kissing is zero risk for HIV transmission because saliva renders the HIV virus inactive and therefore unable to infect even with bleeding gums.

[ketuuss]

But doesn't the gums that had cut provide conditions for hiv to be transmitted? I did not feel any blood while kissing and I also inserted my finger a couple of times and checked that it had no blood in saliva.

[RainLover71]

The saliva in your mouth would render the HIV virus inactive and therefore unable to infect you.

[ketuuss]

I read somewhere that to be  hiv infected by kissing, the partner should be bleeding a lot that you would stop kissing to pose an infection, is that true? does it also mean that small traces of blood does not cause infection?

[RainLover71]

In 30+ years of the HIV/AIDS epidemic/pandemic,no one has ever contracted HIV via kissing under any circumstances and you won't be the first.Trust me.

[ketuuss]

i had inserted by finger in her mouth 2-3 times to check whether she does not have blood and rubbed on my white t-shirt. Is this assuring that she did not have blood in her saliva?
Also if there was no blood , i do not have to worry of hiv  from the sore gum i had?

[Teak]

You never had an exposure from kissing. Saliva contains over a dozen different enzymes and proteins that inhibits HIV transmission.

[ketuuss]

i had inserted by finger in her mouth 2-3 times to check whether she does not have blood and rubbed on my white t-shirt. Is this assuring that she did not have blood in her saliva?
Also if there was no blood , i do not have to worry of hiv  from the sore gum i had?

[RainLover71]

You are clearly not listening to the answers that I have provided you,please accept the facts,you had no risk and I have explained why.