Am I at risk? Please put my mind at ease.

[allecc]

I had anal sex with a condom, but started in the shower without one. he inserted it in me for about 5-10 seconds when I made him take it out and go put a condom on. after that it went and the condom did not break. the only think I'm worried about is the 5-10 seconds he inserted it without a condom, if there was pre-cum or anything that I could have been infected from. I don't know his status but I know he has a lot of people he sleeps with. when I used the bathroom right after there was a very tiny amount of blood, but I don't know if that's much of a concern. just need to know if the 5-10 seconds was enough to put me at risk to get it. I also did unprotected oral and need to know if that put me at risk, there was no ejaculation in my mouth and I don't even believe there was any pre-cum, just need to know for peace of mind. thank you to any and everyone who answers this question and puts my mind at ease.

[allecc]

it happened a little over a week ago

[allecc]

it was anal and I don't really believe there was any penetration he was just trying to put it in and I felt a lot of pressure but didn't really feel it go in

[sleeplessnights34]

You know best about what happened. If he didn't penetrate, there was no risk. You did mention the presence of blood, and that usually happens with penetration. But again, you are the only person who knows for sure, and now you know what to do in either case.
Good luck.

[allecc]

I believe that the tear occurred when he tried to insert it without a condom if that helps. just really freaking out here

[sleeplessnights34]

Since there was penetration, there was a risk. Take a DUO at 4 weeks post exposure as an indication. Foolow up with an antibody test at 12 weeks for a conclusive result.
When did this happen ?

[sleeplessnights34]

Was it anal or vaginal penetration ?