Am I infected? Please help me. I am on verge of breakdown.

[rkumar_guj]

I am from Gujarat India. This episode of mistake and foolishness happened on last thursday i.e. 30th June, 2011. I had an encounter with a CSW. First I fingered her. Then we went on to have bath. After the bath I touched her clits with the tip of my penis ~ unprotected. Then we went on to have protected vaginal sex. The first condom slipped a bit so I changed and put another one. This act was her upon me. Still I didnt reach orgasm so I removed protection and she sucked me unprotected and I came a bit in her mouth. Then finally she gave me a hand job. Theteafter in about next three hours I sucked her breasts thrice and finger ****** her during that time. I dont know her HIV and STD status. Am sweating, feeling restless and sleepness since 4 days. Saw this excellent forum so posting this questions~

1. What are the chances of me being infected if she was HIV positive?
2. When earliest can i get tested? What test should I take for early results since waiting for 3 months would kill me.
3. What best I should do so that I dont infect my two kids and wife?

The last few days have been very scary and it looks like I am drifting towards death. Please help and give me correct guidance and information so that I can start medicines if required. Please help

[Teak]

YOU NEVER HAD AN EXPOSURE.

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[rkumar_guj]

Thanks juandos but u must be knowing what a fright and scare it is just to think even of getting infected and it keeps going on in mind. I am trying to be cool but I cannot be calm.  Its a blunder of life I feel and the oponions I read here come as a relief. The stigma of the disease gives more scare here back in India. So I keep coming back here with silly questions but please allow me with my mental condition. I pray to GOD I am not infected. And hope your opinions are true.

[juandos1980]

teak did mention you have no risk.... and it is true.... hiv is transmitted thru unprotected penetrative vaginal/anal sex, sharing of IV works and mother to infant.. calm down... you dont have hiv...

[rkumar_guj]

How about ur opinion in indian context? Would my chance of infection change? Please do reply. I m really tensed.

[rkumar_guj]

Any second opinions on my post... Please help as i m scared to death and too worried....

[rkumar_guj]

Forgot to mention i hv mild headache and loss of apetite with indigestion too

[rkumar_guj]

And what about the symptoms??

Is having sex with my wife safe?

[rkumar_guj]

Thanks once again

so my family is safe with me. I feel relieved a bit.

[Teak]

No risk.

[rkumar_guj]

Thanks Teak

Are you sure on that?? I m too scared for tests even. Yes i forgot to mention thst was my first n last exposure outside marriage.

[Teak]

None. You never had a risk.