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Anal fingering with cut and risk

I am sure everyone has heard this question Alot but I will feel better if I ask it. So I saw a FSW today and what we did was she laid on her stomach while I masturbated with a condom on. I then fingered he anus, it's safe to say my entire pointer finger went in. She also masterbated me for like 5 seconds but I had a condom on. So I finished went to the bathroom washed my hands with soap and water took the condom off and washed my hands again. My problem is when I got back to my car I noticed a cut on my finger. It's wasn't bleeding at all and wasn't deep. I hand sanitized my hands a couple of times. I did talk to her before hand and she said she is clean and gets tested once a month. Also when I told her what I wanted to do she said ok but no bodily fluids can get on me. I said fine I was going to wear a condom anyway. So I think she is safe for a sex woke. But it's just the cut I'm worried about. I also smelled my finger right after and it had no smell of feces or any on it at all and no blood. But I am just worried because the cut and me fingering her anus. Any advice would be greatly appericate. I have a picture of the cut of the cut in my profile
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I do not know why you started another thread but I answered your concerns there
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I woke up kinda worried. I mean I had a condom on there was no penatration at all. She was laying on her stomach and I was just masterbating with a condom on. She did stick a finger in her own anus and and she did stroke my pens for a minute. Not sure if it was that hand she used on herself. I mean she even said she doesn't want any fluid on her and checked the condom to see if it broke. She did that by pushing down on my shafts to see if semen came out. Like I said I asked her if she was clean she said yes I get tested once a month. I even sent her a text and said you 100% don't have hiv right her response was no do u and she said your fine even if I did have anything we didn't do anything that put you at ri . So am I just feeling guilty. My concerns are
1) the cut on my finger that I put in her anus. The hiv risk what is it.
2) I have 2 kids can I safely touch them.
3) my wife can I safely have sex with her.
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Thank you for your kind words
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Thank you sir. I see you are studying to be a doctor. Good luck and thank you for the help.
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No one has ever been infected from fingering
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So the cut isn't a factor at all.
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No risk
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