Another worried well - nipple sucking - pleas help

[another_worried_well]

Hey guys, I'm newbie on this forum but I'm avid reader of this forum from last month. I want to thank you for tones of information shared by you all on this topic that has helped me think rationally about this issue.  Here is my story – I went to a strip club 8 weeks back and had a lap dance session with a stripper. During this session, I sucked her nipples and I thought something came in my mouth (not positive) but one thing I'm certain is I heard some whistling sound on the same nipple that I sucked. The other action that happened was she grinded me too hard causing me to ejaculate in my underwear. Just to mention stipper was wearing G string and I was wearing Jeans and underwear. I talked to many doctors and counselors about this situation and they told me that grinding and ejaculation is a non issue and HIV can not permeate between layers of clothing but they told me there is some risk to nipple sucking and discharge you felt in the mouth. After listening to their advice, I thought there could be three things that could be possible sweat, breast milk or blood. I ruled out breast milk as I didn't see stripper being lactating as I did not get anything from her other nipple and besides that she was in great shape. Only worry I have is sweat and blood. I'm leaning towards sweat as she was dancing heavily on the stage before I took her to private dance so her sweat glands may have been activated. I just sucked once on her troubled nipple and after finding this malfunction  I stopped the session.  

[another_worried_well]

One of my friend also had the lap dance session with the same girl and he experienced same thing, with stripper trying to force her nipple in his mouth, she did the same with me. Also, when I tried to finger her she removed my hand from her private area. Now coming to Symptoms, I had soar throat the next day and my friend also had it also. I went to the doctor and explained the situation and he put me on antibiotics. I had horrible stomach after that acid reflux and constant sounds from my stomach the second week while on antibiotics. I had no fever, rash or visible swollen lymph node, though when I had soar throat the 1st week, one of the gland in my neck was tender. I had ear infection on 5th week and I put drops for that and I'm getting ear noises constantly. I had ear noise problem before also and usually it happens when I get stressed or when I don’t sleep properly. My acid reflux and gastric problem has subsided as I took off the counter medicine, I think it is mayolex. In between I'm not feeling right after having this incident, I'm not sleeping properly having constant feeling that something is not right with me. I've lingering throat infection with phlegm on and off. I did the HIV test at 3rd day (didn’t know the window period), 10th day and yesterday (8 week). I'm awaiting results for 8th week home access test. My earlier tests have come negative. Guys, help me assess my risk and provide some expert opinion on my situation as I await my 8 week result.

[another_worried_well]

I'm having hot flashes too and bit of dizziness and headache and pain in my right side of neck where I had ear infection. I did'nt mention, to get some sleep, I'm taking one table spoon of benedryl daily from last 3 weeks.

[dobber21]

"one thing I'm certain is I heard some whistling sound on the same nipple that I sucked"???

Dude, are you serious??
HIV is definitely not your problem. It's as simple as that. I will help you assess your risk. You did not have one. Your paranoia is by far and away your biggest problem here. There are no odds to assess your risk as the number does not exist. You have more chance of exhuming someone from beyond the grave.

Please, please let this go. There is absolutely no way you could have contracted HIV from the episode you describe. All your issues are psychological. Seek counselling immediately.

Congratulations on being HIV negative. Suck as many stripper's nipples as you like, it is NOT a means of transmission:)

[dobber21]

Symptoms Schmymptoms. This is not a HIV situation.

[another_worried_well]

Dobbler, I'm serious, I heard some whistling sound from her nipple. I don't know if it due to air pressure and I'm not postive but I think something came in my mouth.
I've been reading anatomy of breast and trying to find out when this situation can occur. It is making me crazy. I'm in a worried hell currently.  

[dobber21]

IT isn't making you crazy. You are making you crazy!
I'm really sorry that your so anxious over something you could not possibly have. Studying the anatomy of the breast??? You aren't a doctor! And plenty of people who KNOW what they're talking about have told you you're fine! Whistling sound or no whistling, you're HIV negative.
I will be extremely surprised if you can find anyone to take this as a serious risk, here or anywhere else. Because it's not, and it never will be.
Stop testing. No one has ever contracted HIV in the manner you describe.
Can I get an Amen to that from Strata/Peekawho/Teak?

[kekelow]

Well, i'm a women and noting comes out of are nipples only milk when it has to do with being pregnant. Well can't you see that there is something wrong here, come on you thougth you can get hiv from a women grinding on your jeans. Didn't DR Bob at the www.body.com tell you, you had 0 risks. Now knock it off. Peace.

[strata]

AWW,

I'm inclined to agree with dobber and kekelow. If you had indeed been reading this forum (or thebody.com or similar sites) for the past months, you would not be re-posting here after your exposure.

Here are the facts:

Risk from grinding with clothes: 0 (YOUR ejaculating doesn't increase YOUR risks of becoming infected, FYI. In the case of insertive sex, ejaculation might even decrease your risks since it clears the urethra of foreign fluids).

Risk from nipple sucking: If there was no breast milk or blood, then the risk is zero. Period.

If she were bleeding, it was likely due to your biting, in which case you'd likely have gotten a SLAP, not a lap dance.

If she were lactating AND HIV+, there would also be some minor risk, but this has been shown to be a fairly inefficient mode of transmission in studies of HIV- babies being breast fed by HIV+ mothers. And it doesn't sound like you got much of ANY fluid from your exposure.

Besides, if it were breast milk, you'd have known, b/c breast milk tastes NASTY.

(Before anyone develops an over-eager imagination, let's just say there are many men who have accidently grabbed the wrong cup/bottle from the fridge.)

And it's unlikely that your stripper had HIV.

Neither your symptoms NOR their timeline indicate HIV ARS.

I'm sure your 8-week results will be negative. After that, no more testing will be warranted, especially if you continue to have sex with all of your clothes on.

P.S., the only possible cause of the 'whistle' that I can imagine is a nipple-piercing. In any case, whistling is not a documented symptom of HIV.

[dobber21]

'Whistling is not a documented symptom of HIV'.

!!!

That's brilliant. Perhaps the first time I've laughed unselfconsciously in months. Thanks Strata!

Titter titter!

[pebbles69]

You can defintly not get HIV from sweat so you have nothing to worry about there.

[Vance2335]

This original post is from 2007. Please check the dates of posts before you reply to them.

[Mitch82]

This is a forum for medical advice not spiritual advice, nor a place to judge, I also find your poem distasteful

[LIZZIE LOU]

do ppl post just to be posting?