Anxiety about hiv

[Janus4321]

Hi i am sorry for my english but i have a question about my risk 5 weeks ago.
I had sex with a lady and we were drunk.i can remember that i rubbed here vagine a couple of times without condom after that i put a condom on it was half o  my penis and i tried to penetrate it did not go and the lady pulled of the condom and immediatly she touched the head of my penis with here fluida on the hand after that i fingered here deep and she came with a lot really a lot of fluids all my hand was really soaked in here fluids then i do i masturbate immediatly with my soaked hand.
After then 10 days my body starts with strange symptoms sore throat diaree body pains itching yellow tongue burning tongue strange blotchy wite red spots on my hand palms and lots of more i am verry scared i catched syphlis or hiv pls can somebody try to help me to get out of this verry veryy stressfull situation thank you

[Janus4321]

Hi i am back again
I have a lost question i went to the lab in belgium and they did a soa screening test this means for chlamidyia gonnoroe hep.b syphlis and hiv.only i dont now wich test it is 3rdgen or 4gen or only antibodies? It is done after 5 weeks and 3 days pls can you tell me if these test are reliable or not?they al came negative back i am still in a lot of stress and anxiety
Thanks

[Kirstie_MHModerator]

As you were advised, you had no risk for HIV.  This means that any test you take will be negative for HIV since you did not get HIV from your event.  There is no more advice this forum can offer.

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[Janus4321]

She told me 4 weeks after

[AnxiousNoMore]

That advice from nosexuntil is incorrect. You don't need a test as RubyWitch and I explained.

[Janus4321]

Sorry but i mean, my english is not good ,what about if my fingers have small wou ds or cuts or at the line of my nails the lade have hiv thats why i am so afraidc

[AnxiousNoMore]

That doesn't matter, because it can't infect through small cuts. You are safe.

[Janus4321]

And please the answer about my fingera inside here vagina i am sorry nut really woried and a lot of fear

[RubyWitch]

Regardless of the amount of her fluids on your hand when you masturbated, they had been exposed to air which renders the virus inactive (unable to infect) You had no risk.

[Janus4321]

Ok thank you for your anwser tomorow i go see my doctor and do test after 5 weeks of exposure i am verry scared but need to have patience sorry i have only 1 other queation we had also deep french kissing and i now my own mouth is in  ot so good condition and we had a lot of alcohol is there any chance by this? Thanks a lot

[AnxiousNoMore]

You had no risk so your doctor will likely tell you that a test is a waste of time, so try to relax. Reread the part about the 40.  
HIV is instantly inactivated in saliva also, so because kissing has both air and saliva it is not a risk either.

[Janus4321]

I forgot the lady is hiv plus

[AnxiousNoMore]

You had zero risk so don't need to test since there was no penetration.

HIV is instantly inactivated in air which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching.  So it doesn't matter if you rubbed because it was in the air, even if both people were bleeding at the time since it is effectively dead.

Only adult risks are unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal sex or sharing needles that you inject with.
Even with blood, lactation cuts, rashes, burns etc air does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established so nothing you can add will make it a risk.

There is an std forum for those questions but I don't think you could get std. Your symptoms will have to be diagnosed by a doctor but have nothing to do with HIV. You interact with others, so colds and sore throats are to be expected.