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5066890 tn?1418653676

Anxious, Worried :( .. Please help me...

About 10 days ago I had a sexual intercourse with a girl whom I got linked through my friend. My friend provided me her number and after some days of talk we met and she was so much flexible that she agreed for a sex and i am unknown about her status :(
We kissed each other and it started like that.
I put the condom in a right way and began to have sex
But all of a sudden she asked me to take of the condom because she wanted to perform oral.
I agreed and she performed unprotected oral.
I used another condom and ejaculated on the condom after sex and checked for any leakage. It was safe
During second time i put the condom again and began to penetrate for 1 minute.
Mistake happened in this part
I even don't know what happened to me, i stopped to penetrate her and thought of not having sex.I swear to god i did that ..
I was not much careless, so i stretched the condom  backward with my 2 fingers and i am sure i noticed bubble like thing on the tip of condom
(NEAR PENIS HEAD OR URETHRA, WHEN I STRETCHED CONDOM BACKWARD THERE APPEARED BUBBLE) I thought it was not broken because if it had there wouldn't be tiny amount of air when i had stretched.

My question is:
1. I don't think she is a safe girl and might have HIV and STD s because I have a strong feeling and might be a call girl too :(, when she performed oral and I ejaculated on the condom after protected vaginal sex, Am i at any risk?
2. I don't think the condom broke when I stretched the condom because air appeared as i pinched the top part while wearing the condom but i am being so much anxious.
Please help me as my exam is nearing and i think of it all the time
Am I at risk of HIV or STD s?
Please friends and elder brothers and sisters help me... I am so much anxious :(



THANK YOU
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Anything after 8 weeks is fine
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5066890 tn?1418653676
Actually its 68 days...
Would it be ok?
Shall i not repeat the test?
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10 week test is fine
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5066890 tn?1418653676
I tested for Hiv 1 & 2
Vdrl after 70 days of exposure
They all came negative and non reactive
Lab boy says
It is conclusive
Shoukd i take another test after extended duration
or is it conclusive
Please help
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Correct
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5066890 tn?1418653676
My main concern is when i suddenly stopped the intercourse.
I just pulled back the condom to check( As i stated above)
If the condom was broken would it be clearly visible by my naked eyes?
Now can i stop worrying completely about it?
THANKING YOU!
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5066890 tn?1418653676
Thank you for your response.
The thing i am worried about is when I stretched the condom for the second time bubble appeared on the tip.
Does that means condom was right and would the condom break if I had used it correctly and had sex for 1 min and around?
Please suggest me.
That thing is driving me anxious.
Waiting for your response
THANK YOU!
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Avatar universal
if your penetrative sex was protected you are at no risk , secondly , oral sex isnt a way of hiv transmission
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