Hello docs,
Bi guy here. Fooled around with a guy (stable, successful, president of a company) in other words, not a low life. He only did what I felt comfortable with, but at one point he barely inserted (maybe half the head) of his member into my butt and I said whoa there we aren't doing that guy haha.
He's married to a guy, and very chill. He said he was tested and clean. He didn't have any noticeable pre-cum which is easy to taste and I didn't see or taste a drop of it for the half hour we were fooling around for. he said what he was doing is usually called "teasing" but definitely knows I wasn't into having it in me w/o a rubber on.
I'm not even sure if he inserted it or not. but it was definitely pushed up against my hole. let's assume he did insert it for literally 2 seconds, 1/4 of an inch in.
how much of a risk am I at for getting HIV, assuming he is infected with it which I doubt he is.
thanks!