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At wits end!

Hi Everyone,

I am really not in a good place at the moment! About 9 1/2 weeks ago,  met up with a guy from the UK. We had a few drinks and chatted for hours - he seemed really cool. Long story short, we ended up showering together. He gave me a blow job which was unprotected. I wanked him a bit but he didnt ejaculate. He then wanked himself and did ***. He then proceded to rinse his hand in the shower. After, he jerked me off.......at first I took it as all ok, but then 6 weeks later I had a huge flip out, so had an elisa test - it was negative.

I am still so freaked out and scared for my life! I dont consider myself promiscuous - I am 23 and have has sex once (was so freaked out after that, i abstained from all sexual activity for a year!), had 2 BJ's and 2 hand jobs - that's it!!! I am always so scared of doing anything remotely sexual for fear of contracting HIV!!!!!

My 12 week mark is Dec 3rd - I will test again - I just hope I can mentally & physically make it till then......I just feel so hopeless.........
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Thanks Kim - I also thought I was fine - hence me only stressing 6 weeks on!

What concerns me is what if his hand was not 100% clean of his semen when he touched my penis....or when he rinsed his hand and semen in the water rinsed onto me, or got in my mouth or eye?????????
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328464 tn?1195566561
can u advice me at this post please, Kim

http://www.medhelp.org/posts/show/351387
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186166 tn?1385259382
of course your test was negative...you did NOTHING to put you at risk.

i'm not going to try and convince you to not worry...but what i will ask you to do is to read the "facts" about hiv.   educate yourself first...then you might just be relieved of your fears.

there is absolutely no reason for you to feel hopeless...you are fine sweetie.   if it will make you feel better though...i suggest you go ahead and test at the 12 week mark that you have planned.  you will be negative then too :)

kim
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