Big mistake. Self infection?????

I went to a message parlor this past Saturday. The lady put baby oil on me. Then she wanted to have sex for money. I said oral only. She got a condom that was tucked in her braw. The condom was wraped in a tissue. She grabed my penis and put the condom on. She gave me oral for a max of 2 minutes and I came. She took the condom out with some napkins. I touched the bed and felt liquid in my hand.  With the same hand I grabed a Kleenex tissue  and put some alcohol ( she gave me a bottle of rubbing alcohol to use) I clean my penis head. Again I grabed tissue and with some alcohol on it and rubbed it against the inside of my penis hole. I felt the sting. Now I am worried, if the condom was any good, had holes, expired, type of condom, and brand. In addition I am worried might have mistakenly put some vaginal fluids in my penis and penis hole.
Now I feel a slight sting/burn when I peen. This started on Wednesday and it does not happen overtime. I went to a doctor about 7 months ago and he told me I had an infection and gave me cypro. It currently does not feel as bad as before. But I am worried if got something in me did I also get HIV. Help me.  

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Welcome to our Forum. I see that you have now made 31 posts to our sites related to this exposure in less than a week. I hope that I can help to relieve your concerns.  

There is no risk for HIV from the exposure you describe. To start with, even if your partner had HIV (which is unlikely), there are no well documented cases of HIV being transmitted through UNPROTECTED oral sex.  In your case your exposure was condom protected further insuring that you did not get HIV or any other STD from the exposure you describe.  HIV is not spread on persons' hands when they touch their genital, even if there are genital secretions on them.

Finally, your condom was fine.  When condoms fail, they break wide open leaving no question at all that they failed. It is completely obvious.  Condoms do not "leak".

Your symptoms (slight discomfort on urination or a slight fever) are not due to the exposure you have described.

You do not need to worry and do not need testing for the exposure you describe.  EWH

[Core121249]

Please note. When I touched the liquid, which I believe is vaginal fluids, I did not clean my hands with rubbing alcohol. I merely grabbed a tissue and put alcohol on it. Then I rubbed it on my penis and rubbed it inside my penis hole as described above. ( just for clarifications since above might be vague)

[Core121249]

I had a slight fever yesterday. Like I was coming down with something. But I seem fine now. Oh, when I said " it currently does not feel as bad as before." I meant it as in comparison with what I went to doctor 7 months ago for. Sorry.

[Core121249]

Thank you for your response. It is well taken. Please consider the following.
1. I know I have some sort of herpes in me in genital area. The day of the incident and the day after I felt the familiar tingling in my penis head and urethra. If I was having an outbreak ( Or UNSEEN BLISTER IN THE URETHRA WHERE I TOUCHED) would that change you assessment???

2. If I had an untreated ngu, chlamidia, gonoreah, etc. from months ago that was unsuccessfully treated, would that change your assessment???

3.  You stated that HIV is not spread from a person's hand to their genitals even if a person has genital secretions on them. However I just want to make sure you undertand that I not only touched my penis head BUT ALSO OPENNED MY PENIS HEAD BY SQEEZING AND RUBBED THE INSIDE OF IT AND CLOSED. The was mystipid attempt at cleaning my self. And the inside is a mucus membrane. That cange your assessment???

4. I am uncircumcised. I did touch my self. In the foreskin.

5. I know that you said it is unlikely that she is positive, but please assume that she is for assessment purposes. As I did not like the way she speared ( tattoos and mannerism and all). Plus not massage parlor with benefits was not legal.

Thank you in advance.

[Edward W Hook, MD]

None of this changes my assessment.  You are over thinking this.  EWH

[Core121249]

Thank you for response.
It is just that I looked at site The Body and in their HIV information page they make it seem like HIV needs sometime before it becomes inactive. And the vaginal fluids were pretty fresh.

Also, when I was leaving the massage parlor they were in a little bit of a hurry to get me out when I asked if she was "clean." Her response was "do I look sick."

I guess I got I bad feeling about that place. Plus she touched the inside of the condom before she pot it on. I sure she had vaginal fluids in her fingers.

[Edward W Hook, MD]

This is not a debate.  Recommedations on The Body are more conservative than ours.   You can find all sorts of mis-information on the internet.  You have to decide who you will believe.

This will end this thread.  EWH

[Core121249]

Ok than you for your response. So you believe I have no risk??? Or you are changing your assesment???

[Edward W Hook, MD]

As I said in my inital response- "You do not need to worry and do not need testing for the exposure you describe."

Further questions will be delted without comment  EWH

[Core121249]

Thank you very much Dr. Hook.