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Bleeding gums and oral sex in a sauna.

I just can't help my big hot head to take control over my body ALWAYS. I was in a sauna and decided it was a good idea to suck the penis of some unknown guy who now I know has had A LOT of sex in his life, even participated in orgies and it's likely to have hiv. I must have sucked him 1 minute in total; like 20 seconds every 2 minutes or so.

I'm worried as hell again now since I DO have boyfriend who I am commited and I don't want him to have some illness because of me...

My gums always bleed when I brush them and I did like 4 hours before this stupid act. If I was in a really hot sauna and may have tested some precum (I'm not sure), am I in risk of having hiv now? I feel so scared I wanna die now...
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Yes diver is sure and so is every other answerer on this forum about oral sex not being a risk for HIV.Stay off HIV websites because the more you google the more conflicting information you will read.Stick to the facts that you have been given here and next time use a condom anyway because you could end up with a mouth full of thrush or herpes.
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If I am 18 years old and healthy (I go to the gym and work out regularly), what's the shortest time I should wait to get tested and get a realiable result?

(On top of all, I think all of my fears come from the fact that I was unfaithful to who I believe is my life partner. He's just the perfect guy and I cheated on him. We have been together for three years and I feel like ****...)
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No risk.
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Teak, I'd really value your comments on this. Do you also think I had no risk?
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Oh crap! Sorry guys. Im learning the rules fast.
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Do not hijack other people's threads. You don't have an HIV concern.
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What does thrush feel like?

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366749 tn?1544695265
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No !
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NO
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Just one more last thing (promise it's the last), so, my bleeding gums and the fact that I brushed my teeth 4 hours before giving head do not increase my risk?
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I have read so many mixed answers on the internet. I have read that some people say studies have never shown any sign of oral infection becausa saliva can kill hiv, but, are you too sure?

I'm just 18 and I am so afraid...
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Oral sex either way, does not put anyone under HIV risk
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