I recognize your username but don't recall anything about your previous thread. But you can relax. The reliability of HIV tests is not affected by EBV infection, and your results show you don't have HIV. Your symptoms are entirely consistent with your acute EBV infection (i.e., infectious mononucleosis), which also affects CD4 and CD8 counts. I'm sure your own provider has told you all this, and that person probably knows as much about these things as I do.
HHH, MD
1. The chances you got HIV from this experience are astronomically low. Almost certainly this woman is not HIVpoz, so the chance you got it are zero really, in my opinion, but see what Dr.H says.
2. Diarhhea in itself is not a symptom of a recent HIV infection. Actually, even in people who experience real ARS, diarhhea is not that common.
So relax and wait for your negative test results.
You describe a very low risk exposure. I'll bet not one person a year catches HIV (in the US) from exposures of the sort you describe, especially given your partnter's testing history. (Almost all heterosexually transmitted cases occur in the regular sex partners of people known to have HIV.) As DrStupid already said, diarrhea is not an ARS symptom, especially when it is the only symptom.
I recommend against HIV testing in your situation; the risk simply isn't high enough. However, all sexually active people (outside committed monogamous relationships) should have an HIV test from time to time, such as every 1-2 years. If you haven't been tested recently, this would be a good time, since it's on your mind. But this advice has nothing to do with the sexual exposure you describe. (If you do it, just have a standard, laboratory-based test. Rapid tests carry risk of false positive results. Think what you'll go through for a few days if that happens, while you await the results of repeat testing.)
Good luck-- HHH, MD
My concern was that she wasn't being truthful with her past history - I have no reason to believe she's lying, but there are always the what-if's that pop up...especially with the emergence of the diarrhea @ 3 weeks.
My rapid test is scheduled at a clinic here in NY that uses the OraSure/OraQuick test - do those also have a high incidence of false positive?
All rapid tests have a higher rate of false positive results than laboratory-based antibody tests. It's not a big chance, but it's still far more likely than the possibility that you caught HIV.
I'm sorrry...just want to make sure I understand everything.
You came to this site for my expert advice and, one assumes, reassurance. You were given it. Now accept the good news and move on.
Hope for all those worried out there....and further confirmation that the Doc knows what's up.
Thanks-- HHH, MD