Body fluids everywhere

[anxiety_panic]

Dr. I have been visiting massage parlors for about a year now. I always get Hand Jobs Only. I always though this was a safe way to go outside my marriage. This was until a friend of mine got me to think.
He ask me, "Arent you worried about all of the sperm that must be laying all over the massage table and oil bottles ect." "Who knows if any of those men are infected with HIV." He said I could be laying in it, the massage girl could have not washed her hands, or there could have been sperm on the oil bottle that she didnt wipe off. He said there were a number of places she could come in contact with infected sperm and then massage my penis with it on her hands." So I have been very scared the last couple of weeks. My last HIV test Was 6 months ago for a life insurance poilcy. The last 3-4 day I think I have been looking for symptoms I saw on the internet, I keep feeling weird sensations in my groin and neck, I dont know if my nodes are swolen, but something feels weird, or could it be in my head?

Questions:
1) If the massage girl has a previous customers sperm on her hands, can it be massage into my penis and infect me.

2) Is the time between customers (10-15min) enough time for HIV to be destroyed outside the body making it unable to infect in the way I described in my previous question.

3) Do I need to get another HIV test

4) can anxiety make you feel weird body sensations if your constantily paying attention to them.

Sorry for the long question. Your advice is greatly appreciated, Sorry my english isnt the greatest.

[dobber21]

Oh dear.............
My friend you were never at risk for HIV infection and you are to be applauded for your safe sexual practices.
If you visited a massage parlour on the hour every hour for the rest of your life, and had continuous handjobs, you would never, ever, ever contract HIV. Your friend, I imagine, is either playing you for a fool or just dog ignorant. Because there has never ever ever been a case of HIV transmission in the manner you describe. And there never, ever will be.

Keep getting those handjobs and you will remain free of HIV infection. And if someday you decide to go further, stick on a condom and you'll never have anything to worry about.

Now, please, let this go:)

[anxiety_panic]

thanks, But do you mean hiv infect sperm cant live outside the body or if she had some on her hand It couldnt get inside my penis

[dobber21]

Don't concern yourself with any of that.
HIV only survives outside the body for seconds. 10 HIV positive customers could have handjobs before you, and you could safely go in there and have a handjob and never contract HIV. Don't forget that masseuses are far more STD conscioius that you or I will ever be because they have to.

Don't be worrying about HIV living outside the body because it doesn't concern you. Getting a handjob is not a risk for HIV and it never, ever, ever will be.

Now, for the love of God, let this go!!:)

[anxiety_panic]

thanks alot I feel much better,  how did you obtain all of this knowledege, because there is so much bogus info out thier like my friens info.   thank you once again

[dobber21]

Through rigorous research!
Don't search the internet looking for answers, if you want scientific based, concrete facts about STDs, go to your local STD clinic and ask for the facts. But I guarantee you that you're not at risk for HIV from getting a handjob, and anyone who says you are is lying through their teeth:)

[alex8009]

Hello,
I'm posting this on a couple of threads here because I'll be incommunicado very soon (for geographical reasons) and am eager for informed feedback to my questions; I noticed your reply on another thread and feel confident of your sensibility and expertise.

May I ask, please, that you reply to my thread/inquiry of March 4, entitled "Isolated and concerned..."

Thanks again!