Can barely function-help.

Hi all. My name is Steph (male) from Canada. Just wondering on your thoughts on a recent experience about 1 month ago.

Meeting with a shemale semi upscale escort. I was insertive with her on top. Condom on when we started. Intercourse took a little less than a minute with me ejaculating inside her. Everything felt fine but when she was getting off of me I remember thinking "why do I feel so exposed?" And sure enough when she was off me completely there was no condom on me.

My immediate thought was that it came off as she was getting off me. I didn't have that 'exposed' feeling until she was getting off me and it felt like the condom was coming while she was. When she checked she said the condom was sticking 'out of her a**'.

Judging off of this, how likely is it that I could I have caught HIV?
Does exposure time matter?
Does this sound imore likely that it came off upon withdrawl (withdrawal) while inside her and me not noticing it?

About a week later I called her asking about her status and she said she was negative. She also said that I probably will still feel anxious about things and the only way to calm me down is to get tested. She was very confidant and actually quite reassuring.

I know people lie but is this a good sign?

Sorry for all the questions. I hope it is me being to anxious. I am just really having trouble functioning and would like something to calm my nerves. I will be testing in 2 weeks and again in another 6 after that.

Thank you all so much.

[Teak]

Yes, it sounds like from what you stated that it came off on withdraw. Make sure you always hold on to the ring of the condom when withdrawing.

[Stephan5]

Thanks for the quick reply. I am going to get tested nonetheless, but judging from this potential exposire is testing warranted in your personal opinion?

Thanks

[Teak]

If the condom was hanging out the anus then no a test is not warranted. You lost it on withdraw.  If it will help with your anxiety then test.

[Stephan5]

Hi. Thanks for the help. Just wondering though. I didn't actually see it hanging out. She just looked a bit worried then felt 'back there' and stated 'it's hanging out of my a%&'.

I should have inspected the condom but I didn' t. Very stupid I know. I think I was just paralyzed with fear and not able to think properly.

Anyway, I am wondering if I should believe her or not. She said it with no prompting at all, and seemed to breathe a bit of a sigh of releif when she said it; I would really love to believe her but I'm just not sure. Anxiety is driving me crazy.

Anyway, thank you all.

[Teak]

You lost it on withdraw and there is no need to test. If you would have lost it while having sex she would have had to reach in to retrieve it.