Can i relax?

hi everyone

Well i am a male of 26 from India.I got physically involved with a women of 40.She is a friend through common friend.We had been talking over the phone etc from the past 4-6 months etc and i go to her house also and have met her husband and her children too.

Due to sum circumstances we had sexual intercourse... i was unprotected.

the whole incindent last for like 3-4 minutes or so...and i was in her for like 1-2 minutes.

i even talked to her abt hiv etc and she said that she had been tested already for hiv ...recently as she had done a complete body blood check up and in that hiv was there too.

I got a lil scared still and asked her to have another test etc... she felt bad (i know that) but she had the Hiv test and the result was negative.
i was relived.

now what i doubt is that.. Could she have asked sum1 else in her place to have the test? cud she have shown me a false report? i even confirmed from the lab that there was a lady by the name of XXXXX who has had the hiv test and the test is negative.

shud i worry?i am fully confident that she isnt in her window period as she was not  involved physically with anyone...atleast not from the past 1 year or more... as she was in depression....  

so guys pls help me out...
am i safe?

[Teak]

Get yourself tested. Unless you went with her to get tested you'll never know.

[itsbad]

I even asked her driver that did she go to the lab etc... and he said yes....

i tried every possible way to find out that YES she is the one who has got herself tested....

and what ever i tried has gone in my way ...luckily...

i am not doubting her ... its just that anxiouness....

wht do i do??
dunt tell me i need to test... pls..

she wasnt a pros ... nor does she go arnd looking out for boys/men ... etc

[Teak]

Get youself tested.

[itsbad]

why do u think i am at risk?

[Teak]

How about UNPROTECTED sex. Doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure that one out.

[aak001]

Teak is right you had unprotected sex this puts you if risk. you must get tested. a test at 6-8 weeks will give you a good indication and then a test at 3 months would be conclusive. i wish you the best of luck :)

[itsbad]

but she has had the test right? she hasnt had any SEX from the past 1 yr...

now?

[Teak]

Did you see her do the test? Did you see the test results? If you want to know your status TEST.

[itsbad]

Yes i saw her test reults.She had the test the same day i told her to and she showed me the results the next day in the evening.
i did not see her do the test.
i saw her results.
i confirmed with the lab too that there was a lady by the name xxx who has had a hiv test.