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I made a big mistake 8 days ago and stepped outside of my marriage and had an encounter with a prostitute off the internet. We had...

Unprotected Oral sex for about 5 minutes (her on me)
Protected Vaginal sex for about 3-4 minutes

I ejaculated inside the condom and to my knowledge it didn't look ripped, and the condom in it's packaging didnt look like there were holes poked in it.

My wife and I want to start a family, and obviously that requires unprotected sex.  Am I ok after on encounter?  If I somehow got infected and infected her I would seriously lose my mind/life/sanity.

Note...the sex worker still posts almost every day, and she swore up and down she gets tested every 3 months, and if she had something she wouldnt go around spreading it, etc.
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Wrong. There are no tests that are sold and marketed to give a conclusive test result earlier than 3 months. Early detection and a conclusive result are not the same. The guidelines for a conclusive result have not changed.
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The experts on this very forum recommend the DUO at 28 days post exposure TEAK!
will they be banned?
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no risk!

but i understand your predicament when  it comes to the family all reason and logic will not convince you,
A test will be comforting wait for 28 days for a DUO test or Do a PCR test now this will be conclusive and destress you.
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You had no risk from unprotected oral sex and no risk from protected sex.
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