Condom slip off after switching position

Hello,

On 30 July 2010, I had protected vaginal sex with a Thai CSW in her hotel in Singapore.I switched position from
sitting down on the bed doing coitus to 'standing up positon' vaginal sex. In between changing positon, there was no thrusting. I am pretty sure the condom is still on. However, shortly after we both were standing up, I suddenly slipped out from her vagina. I didn't even know the condom was out. I didn't even saw my penis slipped out.
The CSW pulled  the condom from her vaginal quite quickly, <3secs. It was then at this point I saw the condom then I realised it has slipped off. I did not ejaculate inside her.

I inspected my penis. I am not sure if there was tranimission of fluids. After the incident, I washed my penis head with soap. The penis skin felt sticky. I'm not sure whether it is the lubricant made from aloe vera essence or it was something else. After washing, I also urinated.

I asked her what happened. She said that I withdraw from her too quickly and the condom come outside. She then pull it out.

As I did not see the whole withdrawal with my own eyes, I am concerned.
I would like to ask if there was any risk from this exposure. Since she is a Thai CSW from Bangkok,
am I at a higer risk for contracting HIV?

[LIZZIE LOU]

avonelle must have misread your post.  she is educated in hiv transmission and would not have given you such an assessment if she had correctly read your post.

you had NO risk and do not need testing.

[avonelle38]

Hey there. I'm sorry to hear that your condom slipped off. The good news is that your chances for HIV infection (IF she even had it, and I doubt she did) are very low. A one time exposure like yours is less than 1 in 1,000 chance. You can test at 6-8 weeks after this exposure for a very good indication of your status that is unlikely to change, and then test again at 3 months for your final, conclusive result. I wish you the very best of luck, and again, your chances are very low from this incident.

[sheldon_2010]

Hi there thanx, hope there will be more replies.

[alexinnen]

Sorry, I know it's not my topic but I'm very curious to ask you avonelle why do you think he was at risk since the condom slipped after he withdrew?

[sheldon_2010]

Hi alexinnen,

Condom slip out as I withdrew, she said condom was hanging out. The she pulled the condom out.

[alexinnen]

I am not an expert, only a worried well as many on this forum, but after what i read you were still protected becuase you didn't had any contact with her vaginal fluids. Maybe some other experts opinions are welcome.

[Teak]

You were never at risk of contracting HIV. You need to hold of the base of the condom when withdrawing.

[sheldon_2010]

Hi,

I really need more expert opinions here.

[LIZZIE LOU]

you had no risk.  your little willie was protected while INSIDE of her.

testing is not needed.

[sheldon_2010]

Thank you for your reply.

[sheldon_2010]

Hello people,

May i ask for more opinions. More opinions are welcomed.

[LIZZIE LOU]

you've had FOUR...that is enough.

kindly move on...you do not have a hiv concern

[sheldon_2010]

Hi Lizzie,

avonelle 38 says i had an exposure, while teak, alexinnen and you said no risk, who is right? Confused...

[LIZZIE LOU]

avonelle must have misread your post.  she is educated in hiv transmission and would not have given you such an assessment if she had correctly read your post.

you had NO risk and do not need testing.

[avonelle38]

I am VERY sorry.  I did misunderstand your post and thought you meant the condom came off while you were having sex. I apologize if I made you worry needlessly! You definitely did not have a risk and do not need to test or worry about this anymore.

I apologize again!