Condom slips!

20 days back I had sex with a sex-worker. After I ejaculated inside her,  i then had few more penetrations and finally pulled out 10 seconds later , and found that the condom got left behind when i withdrew.i.e. the condom was not there on my penis and the top round part of the condom(the elastic round part) was seen only out side of the vagina.I then took the condom out from the vagina and then she realized suddenly the semens inside it spilled off so she went to the bath room and washed her vagina properly with water.
so now my question is will i be infected with HIV?
Do i need to go for a HIV test?

waiting for a response soon.

[LIZZIE LOU]

i TOTALLY DISAGREE with the answer you were given on the international forum...TOTALLY DISAGREE ! ! ! !

this has been addressed repeatedly by myself and either jean claude or vance (sorry cant remember which one)

[jobs_steve83]

yes lizzie ..but i am so terrified after that incident ....and thats why i posted this in the international forum.... i am too surprised how com i got such an answer in the international forum.

[LIZZIE LOU]

i'm not sure why you got that answer...guess he didnt fully understand what you had said.

[jobs_steve83]

yes might be......so  what you say my posting in the international forum is a complete waste despite your suggestions earlier that i am not in any risk and my encounter is totally protected!

[LIZZIE LOU]

if your condom had come off DURING sex...it would have been pushed up inside of her...not visible or hanging out some.  

[jobs_steve83]

ok thanks.. so what do you say ..shall i go for a test just for peace of mind or that is also even not needed!

[LIZZIE LOU]

testing is not warranted in this situation...but of course you're going to do what you think you need to do :)

[jobs_steve83]

ok thanks!

[jobs_steve83]

Hi lizzie one last concern!

Though the penis might not have had a direct contact with the vagina, but since the condom became loose, there might have been possibility of vaginal fluids coming in contact with the penis. The fact that some semen seeped into the lady's vagina, this is because the condom lost its grip. Same could have happened so can this be a possibility?

[Vance2335]

No it is not a possibility.

[jobs_steve83]

thanks vance!

though i have posted my issue in inetrnational forum but i didnt get proper response and also i had discussion with you as well as lizzie but still i am bit terrified hope you could understand my situation.

[jobs_steve83]

Hi lizzie one last concern! Being a female you could answer this scenario quite easily. So i am asking you again.

Though the penis might not have had a direct contact with the vagina, but since the condom became loose, there might have been possibility of vaginal fluids coming in contact with the penis. The fact that some semen seeped into the lady's vagina, this is because the condom lost its grip. Same could have happened so can this be a possibility?

[jobs_steve83]

Please go through the entire thread and give your opinion on it as i posted this issue in the international forum but didnt get proper response.

[Teak]

Nothing more to add. You were never at risk.

[jobs_steve83]

Thanks Teak. Just for the last time for my last post can you explain me in brief. After that i will surely close this thread.

[jobs_steve83]

Hi Jean despite my posting in the international forum Just for the last time can u say is the above mentioned scenario is a risk situation and especially for my last post is it risky?  After this i will surely close this thread.

[JeanClaude]

It seems that your condom slipped over during withdrawal. The head of your penis would have remained covered,therefore NO RISK here.

[jobs_steve83]

For this scenario what would you think!!

Though the penis might not have had a direct contact with the vagina, but since the condom became loose, there might have been possibility of vaginal fluids coming in contact with the penis. The fact that some semen seeped into the lady's vagina, this is because the condom lost its grip. Same could have happened so can this be a possibility?

[JeanClaude]

You're NOT undestanding the point here. The semen seeped into her vagina because your penis was no longer in the condom. As you withdrew, the head of your penis was covered until just before you withdrew completely. If you continue to feel this HIV phobia regardless of the accurate information you've been given here, you're free to get an HIV test. It's NOT recommended. If any risk was assumed here, it's on the part of the women who absorbed your semen.

-JC-

[jobs_steve83]

Thanks to all of you four Lizzie,Vance,Teak and Jean for their valuable and wonderful suggestions.

[jobs_steve83]

Hi
Yesterday (27 days post exposure) i had a hiv 1 and hiv 2 antibody test and the result came non reactive. I just want to know are these tests 4th generation test?

[jobs_steve83]

I just had these test just for the peace of mind.

[LIZZIE LOU]

HATE TO DO THIS TO YA BUDDY...BUT.....................

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[sahil_sikka19]

hello frnds..
last week i had sex with a sex worker in thailand.she was a id card holder means registered prostitute..while having sex she was on the above position sitting on my penis ...and after a few time i noticed that i left my condom inside and penis was uncovered...she took is out then...and after that i washed my penis properly...and she was also washing her vagina again and again before and after sex...i am very scared of hiv and cant sleep since a week...i am feeling tired,,sleepy and having cold ,2 new pimple on body....i am very scared.....when shoud i get hiv test....i am really scared and feel like hell..,,.when should i get tested....pllzz plzz plzz help me.....................................

[LIZZIE LOU]

do not hijack someone else's post.  you already have a post on the forum.

[jobs_steve83]

dont get angry! i just had this test for the peace of my mind! hope you could understand it!

[LIZZIE LOU]

oh i'm not "angry".   you have been assessed by this forum and we have nothing left to offer.  we cannot babysit you through this no risk.

move on...

[jobs_steve83]

Hello All,

Today i got my 3months negative result. I am so happy today that i cant even express. A special thanks to Teak,Lizzie,Vance and Jean Claude for their valuable support and guidance. Hats off to them.I wish all of you a merry christmas and a verry happy new year 2010  ahead.