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Could this be HIV? All input wanted.

Hi everyone.  I had unprotected oral sex and protected intercourse on October 2nd.  Two days after I became sick which lasted about 9-10 days.  It started with a chill that came on very fast, I then went to sleep and developed a fever. I had swollen lymph nodes under the jaw for one day.  I experienced diarrhea for two days then ended my sickness with severe pain in my ribs/stomach.  For 2 days I also experienced a burning sensation (NOT during urination) but a tender feeling at the tip of the penis, after urination).  Now all those symptoms are gone and all I have is a tiny swollen lymph node in my groin area (along the line that makes the "V" shape below your belly button.  I went into the free health clinic and they told me that the symptoms didn't seem like the "flu" since I didn't have a cough or sore throat.  They also told me that it didn't appear that I had any symptoms of an STD/HIV.  

The next day I went into the Hospital to have them examine me.  I showed them where I thought the swollen lymph node was and they told me that it wasn't of any size of concern and that I had no other issues after examining me.

I had a recent checkup, about a week ago (around October 29th) with my new Doctor and he said he knows I am HIV free but said to prove that to test in 6 months.  I notice some growling sounds in my stomach and it made me worried because all I've had since those flu like symptoms that were over a month ago, is a stuffy nose and these little growling sounds in my stomach.

I suffer from extremely bad anxiety and feel I may be talking myself into believing the worst possible scenario.  Its only been two weeks so I can't get tested.  Any input would help out a lot right now, thanks.
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1563685 tn?1310402354
When we say no risk, they're all based on the assumption that the partner is INDEED HIV+ and most people don't.
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Have a good day.
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I donno Teak, once I had 3 negative tests and she had one I was good. The she started dating an IV drug user, she doesn't use IV drugs. But since I made out with her (deep French kissing with split lip) after she had been with him, I got scared.
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How many times do you have to be told you never had an exposure?
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I donno Teak, once I had 3 negative tests and she had one I was good. The she started dating an IV drug user, she doesn't use IV drugs. But since I made out with her (deep French kissing with split lip) after she had been with him, I got scared.
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How many times do you have to be told you never had an exposure?
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Hey Teak. I've never been with anyone that's been with a IV drug user before I got with them. Given my split lower lip andeewp kissing. Am I still at no risk? I'm really nervous cuz u can also see my saliva ducts in my mouth (two little red dot holes on each side). Are these (split lips/saliva ducts) ways to get infected?
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Ricky what I'm saying is she got with the IV drug user after we had sex. But last night I deeply French kissed her while i had a split lower lip. So I'm nervous because this exposure was after she got with the guy.
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1563685 tn?1310402354
Your test has been conclusive even before you get tested because you had no HIV risk, no matter what. That simple.
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She was previously dating an IV drug user about a month ago. But she tested negative 2 weeks ago via Oraquick swab. She said he was clean and tests for HIV/studs Does the fact of who she was with make a difference on my exposure. I hear IV drug user and freaked out. :/
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Deep kissing is French kissing. NO RISK.
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Even deep kissing as in "French kissing" correct?
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No.
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Thank you Ricky for your time and patience with me! My friend and I were discussing transmission ways today big one was to say have a cracked lip and a couple cuts in the mouth. Could they get infected by kissing someone who is HIV+. I've read conflicting info on this subject.
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1563685 tn?1310402354
Actually you should've posted this on a new thread, but I would be direct on this: You're conclusively HIV negative.
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1519393 tn?1306802108
Your testing proves you did not get HIV. You need to trust your results. Your dry skin has nothing to do with HIV!
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Please help me with my last post ever. Here is my risk ask you can see above:
Unprotected oral
Protected Vaginal
Deep Kissing.

Exposure was on 10/2/2010
Tests: EiA at 6 weeks 2 days: non-reactive
           EIA 90 days: non-reactive
           Oraquick Oral swab 135 days: non-reactive

She also had a test (Oraquick Oral Swab) on 2/18/2011. Non-reactive.

I have had some dry skin on my hand, behind both elbows lately.

Will someone just please evaluate my situation/facts since I took the time to wrote this out. I have nobody else to talk to and would greatly appreciate it.
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Hey

I'm not an expert, but I assume that if you were HIV positive, smoking whatever would not have an effect. Think about it; if the HIV was there, it would show, regardless of anything else. Once you have it, you have it, and nothing you do can change that fact.

You're experience had made me less worried about mine. So thanks :)
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186166 tn?1385259382
you have previously been assessed, on this forum AND the drs forum, as NOT having a risk for contracting hiv.

kindly move on...you do not have a hiv concern.
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Oral sex = no risk
Protected sex = no risk

Testing is not needed at all

Your symptoms are likely due to anxiety, but for sure NOT HIV
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