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DID I PUT MYSELF AT RISK????

Hello everyone ...I have a question to ask .  last night I had anal sex with another man . I was the bottom .
he used a condom and I used to lube but it was too painful because I hadn't received anal sex for a long time .
I asked him to stop and he withdrew from me but condom was not broken.he did not ejaculate. We stopped there.
This morning I woke up and realized I had an Anal fissure and I was bleeding a little bit near the anal area.
did I put myself at risk for HIV???? I foolishly filled the condom with water today to see if it leaked. It was intact.
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Thanks! Both of you!
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Yes
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YES
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Thanks for that too. So just as long as the condom was used regardless of the fissure that occurred during the sex I am ok??
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No risk as no unprotected contact was made.
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Yes. A Trojan latex condom was used. I used astroglide lubricant. I had not received anal sex in a long time .    It was EXTREMELY painful after 5 min. We ceased having anal sex. We did not kiss nor do oral.

Since the fissure was caused during the anal sex and the condom was on,
I would not have to fear hiv transmission?

I guess what I am asking is.."what would have been a risk for hiv with fissure?"

Thanks for responding
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If he used a condom then you had no risk.
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Really?

Is it safe to say that just as long as the head of the penis was covered (and he didn't ejaculate anyways) that I was safe???

I fear the anal fissure bleeding could have been a means of getting into bloodstream if he were hiv +
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3149845 tn?1506627771
Hi, you had no risk to contract HIV from this at all.
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Should I get on something called PEP?
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I also want to add he did not ejaculate at all last night.  but also when I when he first put on the condom I put the tip of the condom on him wrong and had to reverse it immediately and then I rolled it down. this was at the beginning of the sex. Should I be concerned with Precum before he rolled condom  on properly? It touched the tip of his penis briefly before I reversed it and rolled it down correctly.
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