Dead scare of HIV Transmission

[VNBOY]

I am 32 years old male live in Vietnam and married with two kids. I am dead scare of incidence that happened to me two weeks ago where i and my colleague when for massage in Ho Chi Minh City. In the room with CSW, once i lied down on the bed i touched condom of last clientel may be left there for almost 5-10 minutes or so and it touched my leg (believe there is no risk). I had protected oral sex and no sexual penetration at all with CSW. What concern me the most is that the CSW picked the condom up with her bare hand throw it to the rubbish bin, i should ask her to clean her hand before she touched my anus few seconds later.

(1) My question is am i at risk of HIV tranmission if the genital fluid (i.e., semen) of the last clientel on her fingers then touch my on opening anus for about 30 seconds- 1 minute? Is HIV ever transmit in such manner?

(2) I went for the HIV blood test at relaible international clinic (HIV 1 & 2 Antibodies screening) yesterday it is two weeks after exposure, if test come out negative does it reliable for two weeks period? and will do it 6 weeks later. I had my HIV blood test two times in the last 6 months it all came out negative.

(3) shall i continue to have sex with my wife without concern? feeling guilty that i might put her at risk?  

Could anyone please help to clear off my mind and it seems that incidence take control over me now. Appreciated the responses in advance.

[sarath631]

http://www.medhelp.org/health_pages/HIV/HIVThe-Facts/show/1069?cid=68

this will give u the idea, follow the link. NO RISK.Just Relax.

[Teak]

HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions; therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.

[RainLover71]

You never had a risk of hiv transmission because hiv is unable to reproduce outside its living host, it becomes inactive.