onto me because he's bicurious and has a reputation for kissing (but not doing other stuff) to both genders when drunk (regardless of whether hes dating or not). I had the hiv
, gonorrhea, syphilis, chlamydia, herpes, etc tests a week after we broke up and they came back negative. I was fine and happy, until i started remembering back to something my ex said when we was still going out and at a party - he basically said "ive sucked off 7 guys" whilst he was right next me - i know hes only ever done gay stuff with one guy before we got together. Everyone i know has said that he didn't cheat on me and that people do say stupid/untrue things when drunk, but i literally cannot get it out of my head
A test 3 months after your last exposure with him, if negative, will be conclusive. Even if what he said was true about the 6 or 7 blowjobs, HIV is not transmitted via oral sex, and he wouldnt have gotton that way anyways, and thus, cannot give it to you.
Heya, thank you for your help :) i forgot to add that he said it about a week before we broke up - could he have sucked 7 guys off, got HIV then passed it on to me about a week before he ended it?
Also, i thought HIV was contracted through oral sex?
No.. HIV canot be transmitted via oral sex. Saliva neutrilizes the virus, and thus making it inactive. If he said he sucked 7 guys off in a matter of a week, hes probably just trying to scare you, doesnt seem very logical to me anyways. I think you will fine.