Do I have HIV

[hivscared806]

Dr.

I had unprotected vaginal sex during lap dance in club and it's about 3.5 weeks now. I have congestion in nose and some soar throat but absolutely no fever (checking regularly for last 1 week).

I am concerned because I had some rash on my hand a week before but went away after applying ice pack.

My exposure was brief, it was during lap dance and took it off as soon as I came.

Please advice if I am at risk.

Thanks
HivScared 806

[indymanho]

Actually, most people DO have some kind of sex during lap dances, that is the whole point, and there IS a risk in having any kind of sex with strippers who've had all kinds of things smeared on them throughout their shifts. I've only had 2 0r 3 lap dances in my life without being offered "extras". Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't, but I am aware of my risks.

[Vance2335]

Read what I wrote about symptoms.

It was a valid question I asked. Most people do not have sex during a lap dance.

[hivscared806]

I did, thought u were making fun of my post. Sorry for misunderstanding your reply.

Please advice, based on symptoms what do u think

[Vance2335]

How do you apparently have sex? You either know that you had sex or you didn't.

Symptoms are meaningless.

[hivscared806]

Apparently... I hope u are not making fun of it. I am really concerned

What do you feel based on symptoms

[Vance2335]

So during the lap dance you actually had sex with her?

Test 3 months post exposure for a conclusive result.