Exposure to HIV from someone's semen touching penis

[cdavid99]

Hi Doctor.  I am looking to get an assessment of the level of risk of being exposed to HIV recently (and I know I can’t know anything for sure until a test is done 3 months from now).  Last week I had a sexual encounter (it was safe with no anal intercourse) with someone who is HIV positive, and the following is the part that worries me.  After he reached orgasm and was cleaning himself off with a small hand towel, he also wiped off my penis with that same small towel.  It was very quick, as I moved away since I did not want him to do that.  Since it was so quick, I honestly can’t remember if he touched the opening of my urethra with his towel, or if he used a part of the towel that was dry.  But assuming a worst case scenario that he did touch the opening of my urethra, and he did use part of the towel with his semen on it, how concerned should I be that I could become infected?  I appreciate your time and answer.  Thank you.

[H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D.]

There is no chance whatsoever of catching HIV from the exposure you describe.  If you have no other risks for HIV, I recommend against testing; there is no need.  If you still want to be tested, you do not need to wait 3 months; 6 weeks is plenty.  For more information on both points, search this forum using search terms "HIV transmission risk" and "time to positive HIV test".

Regards--  HHH, MD

[cdavid99]

Thank you so much.  I don't have any other risks, so I should be fine without the testing.  Thanks again.

[khan42]

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