I have read a lot on this recently cause I had a concern over receiving a lap dance with frottage, I was clothed, dancer had g string. My research says I'm 99% risk free, most experts say 100% no risk, except dr bob on the body.com seems a bit more conservative saying things like practically zero and minimal risk. My query is why is it so different for dipping? The view of the experts here is that it requires testing, so the same fluids are involved with naked frottage (I know not in my case, I had jeans on), why is dipping 1 or 2 cm a risk and not frottage, it's the exact same fluids, surely if they are active just inside the vagina then there's a chance they are active briefly outside? Can you also estimate my risk from clothed frottage but pants got very wet from dancer and possibly went through to penis. Thanks.