Most people who ask "Do I need further testing?" have already been tested at least 6 weeks, and usually 3 months or more, after the last possible HIV exposure, with negative results. After seeing the title you selected for this question, I anticipated seeing the same thing again. It was a pleasant surprise to see an important question that will be of interest to many forum users.
To answer part of your question, yes I have just a bit of experience at the Harborview STD clinic. For 25 years, until 3 years ago, I was clinic director. Some of the research behind the current approach to combined antibody and RNA testing for HIV was done by the current clinic leadership, and I have followed that program very closely.
The principle is this: HIV appears in the blood before antibody develops. Thus, testing for the virus in people with negative blood tests can pick up HIV infections earlier than antibody testing alone. However, this has not been done routinely in most public health settings, because RNA testing for HIV is too expensive. (It is done for all donations to blood and tissue banks, however.) The approach by Public Health - Seattle & King County, which runs the Harborview STD Clinic, is one that is increasingly done but still not
routineRoutine sputum culture in most settings -- specifically, for all HIV testing in men who have
sexBuccal smear
Causes of sexual dysfunction
Child abuse - sexual
Delayed ejaculation
Erection problems
Female sexual dysfunction
Inhibited sexual desire
Orgasmic dysfunction
Puberty and adolescence
Rape
Safe sex with men, both HIV RNA and standard antibody tests are done. (In other settings, this approach could be done for other high risk groups, or even for all patients -- but in Seattle, MSM still account for almost all new HIV infections, and Dr. Golden has determined that this approach wouldn't work well for groups other than MSM.)
A side note: to save costs, the way this is actually done is that several patients' blood specimens are
mixedMixed respiratory vaccine together and the HIV RNA test is done on this pooled specimen. If the result is negative, it shows that nobody in the pool had HIV in their blood. If positive, then the individual blood samples are tested to find the person with the positive result.
To your specific questions:
1) You can trust the clinician's advice on this. Still, the conservative approach -- since the RNA testing program is new and research on this program still continues -- is to have a final antibody test. Even though 3 months is the official time, 6 weeks probably would be enough. In other words, the clinician was correct, but the counselor was just following standard policy. Also, most MSM who attend STD clinics -- not all, by any means -- don't have just one or two risky exposures, but are potentially at risk for HIV on an ongoing basis. Such men ought to have HIV testing about every 3 months anyway. This might apply to you; if you weren't at particularly high risk for HIV, you probably would have been advised to phone instead of returning in person. But feel free to phone the counselor and ask him or her these same questions. You'll get straight answers. (Most of the clinicians and advisors I knew still work at the clinic. Say hello for me -- or tell them they might be interested in looking at this thread.)
2) I don't know exactly which RNA assay is now being done in this program. But even the non-FDA approved tests of this sort are highly reliable.
3) Sounds like your veins are somewhat difficult to access veins, which is fairly common (and especially common in people who are, or have been, injection drug users). There is nothing more to read into the difficulty in successfully drawing blood.
I hope this helps. Best wishes-- HHH, MD