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The word 'risky' is very relative. Some people, including some on this forum, don't like to QUANTIFY the risk (e.g., 1/xxx chance of transmission). Some people prefer to QUALIFY the risk (e.g., either "YES, there was a risk", or "NO, there was NOT a risk").
QUALIFICATION: In your case, was there a risk from the exposure you describe? Yes.
QUANTIFICATION: How large is the risk that you are now HIV-infected? Extraordinarily small, EVEN IF we assume you had completely unprotected sex. This risk is even smaller now that you've been tested for HIV to exclude pre-existing infection. At most, the chance is now one is several thousands, probably less than the chance that you'll be struck by lightning, which, for PRACTICAL purposes, most people would consider to be zero.
The NET-NET: Get tested at 6 weeks and 3 months using a simple antibody test. A 6-week negative result will be extremely indicative of your negative status and can be considered conclusive for practical purposes. A 3-month negative result is considered conclusive by virtually all medical authorities on HIV.
Get a grip.
The word 'risky' is very relative. Some people, including some on this forum, don't like to QUANTIFY the risk (e.g., 1/xxx chance of transmission). Some people prefer to QUALIFY the risk (e.g., either "YES, there was a risk", or "NO, there was NOT a risk").
For example, conservative social groups prefer to qualify the risk because they're interested in promoting abstinence, and ANY sexual activity, protected or not, carries an inherent level of risk.
QUALIFICATION: In your case, was there a risk from the exposure you describe? Yes.
QUANTIFICATION: How large is the risk that you are now HIV-infected? Extraordinarily small, EVEN IF we assume you had completely unprotected sex. This risk is even smaller now that you've been tested for HIV to exclude pre-existing infection. At most, the chance is now one is several thousands, probably less than the chance that you'll be struck by lightning, which, for PRACTICAL purposes, most people would consider to be zero.
The NET-NET: Get tested at 6 weeks and 3 months using a simple antibody test. A 6-week negative result will be extremely indicative of your negative status and can be considered conclusive for practical purposes. A 3-month negative result is considered conclusive by virtually all medical authorities on HIV.