Guys your help needed

Dear All,
Last week I made a mistake that seems to be the worst of my life.I hooked up with a prostitute, I sucked her boobs, fingured(2 fingures used) her for aboute a minute and then masturbated myself with same hand ( 2 fingures covered with vaginal fluids).However there was no vaginal/anal sex, I also have no cut on my penis or fingures.
I am very scared that vaginal fluids may have entered in my penis tip and cause any infection. It was my first ever sexual encounter with anyone. Last week has been the longest week of my life and it seems that my life is finished.
Considering she was HIV positive, what are my risks??? I have seen some posts on this forum that address same issue but please suggest me when should I test myself.
Please help me.

[tuzan]

Before Teak or lizzi.Kumar ofr somebody of that good people answer to you  Zero risk mate .Dont worry.Relax

[Helpme165]

Dear tuzan, thanks for replying
does this mean that I should not go for test ?? As I am very confused and scared, after how many days I should go for testing to eliminate my anxiety??

Thanks again

[alienshadow]

You do not need a test.. You had no risk.. If you have not tested before it never hurts to do so just so you know...

[Helpme165]

Thanks alienshadow

[LIZZIE LOU]

since this was your first sexual encounter...there is no need to test as advised above.

nothing that you are describing put you at risk for hiv.

hiv is transmitted through...
unprotected vaginal / anal intercourse
sharing iv drug works
mother to child

TRANSMISSION REQUIRES PENETRATION...as in penis in vagina / anus.

[Helpme165]

Thanks a lot Izzie
regards

[alienshadow]

Helpme.. All I was saying now that you are becoming sexually active.. Be careful and get educated on all sexual risks and always carry protection with you... As far as testing goes I am sure you see ads around saying get tested? I know you said this was your first time.. One rule of thumb is you never know when you will run into a girl who worries just like you are now.. Maybe she wont believe that you never have had sex.. Maybe she wants to know just for peace of mind that you are clean of ALL STDs...Some girls are like that and thats a good thing this day and time... Again never get caught in the heat of the moment when you do go to the next step without protection.....

I hope this clarifys me maybe leading you the wrong way... Goodluck..Stay safe!!

[tuzan]

Mate you are great man,my full rekspert

[Teak]

Before ever having unprotected vaginal or anal sex make sure you both have not had unprotected vaginal or anal intercouse 3 months before testing and test together other than that make sure you use condoms correctly and consistently.

[alienshadow]

Thank You Tuzan...

[Helpme165]

Thanks alot guys for your help and suggestions. It means a lot.
Best Regards

[Helpme165]

Today (after 10 days) i got myself tested with ELISA and my S/CO value came to be 0.09 (where reactive value >=1)
i was worried if my penis had some rashes or little cuts i may be affected. I think testing is the only way to remove anxiety that is killing me.

[Vance2335]

ok, well you have a negative test...accept it.

[Helpme165]

Today after 30 days i went for HIV duo Ab/Ag test and it was non-reactive(0.09).

[Teak]

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[Helpme165]

sorry guys

just wanted to share results.

Take care

[LIZZIE LOU]

THE POSTER NEVER HAD A RISK AND DID NOT NEED TESTING ! ! ! ! !

[Morty92]

The response at times may seem harsh but it is actually in the best interest of the poster.  Allowing a poster to constantly question their test results or what constitutes a no-risk situation does not help them, it will only raise their anxiety.  

In this thread the original poster did not even need to be tested, as it was a no risk situation.  Opening up a discussion about the results of test that were not required will not help them.

There is also a seperate thread for HIV anxiety:
http://www.medhelp.org/forums/HIV-Anxiety-Support/show/595  ;

[Morty92]

Sometimes it is best to be gentle - but sometimes you need to be tough.  I watched this site for a while before I started posting 'answers', and in that time I've seen people spiral into bad anxiety simply because they would not listen to facts.  

[LIZZIE LOU]

WOW...i love it when someone just drops by...has no idea what this forum is even about...and starts judging ppl.

teak and i both have been on this site for more than 3 years...day in and day out.

if you had spent a little time reading, instead of judging...you might have figured out that 99% of the ppl who come here suffer from either ocd or anxiety disorder.  we simply cant keep repeating ourselves to someone who is not capable of "hearing" and "accepting" what has been told to them.  these same ppl, change their screen names repeatedly...only to ask the same damned questions over and over and over.  these ppl need to MOVE ON and seek professional mental help for thier issues.

teak is probably the most well informed and valued poster on this forum.  he doesnt need someone coming here, who doesnt know him or how THIS forum is run...and try to tell him how to answer questions.  if medhelp had a problem with him...THEY would deal with him.

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