HELP-testing in Hong Kong

[kizzz]

sorry 4 bad english
I am in Hong Kong now.one week ago I had a sex with a girl I met in club.It was in condom however at the end of sex by 15 -20 sec. i hadnt condom
firstly I would like to know risk I can catch hiv if she carried it
I visited many webpages and I found different info-on 1 page risk amounts to 1/4 on the other 1/6000
so difference are very big please give me professional advice about probability
A girl menstruation I know the risk is bigger but how much it is now?
and my biggest problem is tests in Hk
in country where i come from i can do tests after 2 weeks they are called DUO or COMBO(maybe I mistaken) and have 95%probability
when I called HK hotline woman told me that to do tests in HK I have to wait 3 months
maybe some of u are from HK and know places I can do testes after 2 wekks

[kimoz]

1/1000 for any unprotected vaginal intercourse. But you can never rely on these statisitic, whether with mensturation blood or not, its all the same. Plus you don't know if your partner is infected or not, or worst even if she is positive, there are many factors which could affect the chance of infection too (viral load etc). However a risk is a risk and if you are concerned just do a test at 6 weeks and then 3 months, then you could clear your mind up! But then it is usually very hard to get infected with one single exposure, especially when the status of your partner is not known.

[meworried]

Relax buddy ! You have not a significantly high risk as you described. There are very strong chances for her to ne "negative" since she was not from the high risk group.
1. Mensuration blood is a risk only if she is +ve, otherwise it is zero. I told you that earlier too.
2. Just one test after 3 months is enouh and conclusive

[kizzz]

I think u didnt undertand my question or didnt answer
i meant how much risk increases  when a girl has menstruation? it is still 2/1000? cuz my doctor said to me it increases much and amounts to 1/10?of course i bet if she is positive?

going back to ur question i am not native english but i ll try to explain u :girl started everything ..i was so excited to think,just after 20 sec. i ask her if she wants me to put condom and she answer:yes

i hope this girl doesnt carry hiv, it was not casual situation-i met her in the club but she didnt agree to kiss her,we go on a date ,then for next date,we drink some alhocol and then go to bed...we meet several times yet, we've been to church,and she is not in HK anymore but she sends me messages she loves me etc.,i think she like me and i think is honest cuz i didnt give her any money,and dont think she goes to bed with every guy-if she were of my nationality i wouldnt care...what i am concerned is her home...cuz she comes from south asian country where % of Hiv is 1% ,it seems quite high for me cuz my country only 0,05% carries HIV ,other fact is she has 2 babies -Thank u meworried for ur answer,I know that maybe i wrote some stupid things but 2 weeks ago I have no knowledge about hiv and i was very scared,now i feel better and hope everything would be ok but i am not certain yet: give me 2 answers yet
1.how risk increases when a girl has menstruation?
2.if i do tests after 2 weeks and then after 3 months you think it is a good soloutation? if not tell me why
thank U

[meworried]

2/1000 is meant with +ve partners. Otherwise the risk is absolute zero. Mensuration blood is infected only if she is +ve. No, 3 months are more than enough to get a conclusive result. you are 100% safe then.

Just a question dude... what drove you to dip your "tool" into a pool of mensuration blood of a "one timer" without any protection?

[kizzz]

hello thank you
I know that s just statistics
however you mean 2/1000 while we bet that other person carries HIV? or 2/1000 just for each sex with person we dont know? and did you take into account menstruation? how much risk increase?
i know that 2 weeks is not certain-however if it is positive i think i should  visit doctor
i mean i want to do tests after 2 weeks and once more after 3 months
and I have other question:
if i do testes after 3 months can i be sure they are 100% certain?
cuz i read that sometimes virus is visible after 6 months\thanks

[meworried]

your risk was not "zero", but not as high as 1 out of 4 either. Unprotected vaginal intercourse carries a risk about 2 in 1000. Although not everyone exposed to this kind of risk, catches the virus but transmission is not a game governed by probability and statistics. Even one exposure is enough, provided sufficient amount of infected fluid is available during exposure. So it is better to get tested after such exposure when you had contacted somebody picked up from a club and her history and status (and may be name) is not known.

2 week test is not meaningful, so better test while you are back in your home country.