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HIV - how risky?

Hello
I'm not sure if my mind is playing games on me, but I am obsessive with this, so, pls, help me.
I'm a woma and I was with a much older man. We had deep kissing and he fingered me (introduced one finger for about 15 secs in my vagina). I'm not sure but it is possible there was pre cum on his finger since he was touching himself a lot before that). I refused to continue and he got violent for a while, maybe that is the reason I am so scared. There was no oral sex, only that. I got tested 3 times, 4th generation,at 28, 32 and 35 days, non reactive. I'm planning to take another test by 8 weeks (60 days). Do you think that was a truly risky situation? Thanks
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366749 tn?1544695265
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No ! You were never at any risk of HIV as evident from your tests also. 4th generation test is conclusive after 4 weeks therefore your all three tests are reliably conclusive. These test had to come negative because your exposure remained non existent. You did not require any test in first place since your exposure was only hand to genitals which is a ZERO risk activity, no matter what kind of ifs and buts you bring to the table

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Tks a lot for your reply. Hope you are right.
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60 days - negative
103 days - negative (rapid)

Meanwhile ive found out i got HPV.

Now i Am very concerned about others stds
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Tks for your reply. I asked about the hiv-2 because he had lived in África for 4 years, in one country with high incidence on hiv-2.
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One more thing
Why would you say a penile with pre cum is risky and a dirty (pre cum) finger, is not?

Does anybody know if a duo test after 30 days is also conclusive for hiv-2?

Tks
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