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I had sex on the 20th of September in Dubai with a massage girl.
I had unprotected oral sex for 1 minute, then put on a durex condom and had sex for another 2-3 minutes in two different poses. I came into her.
I'm really very concerned since that day. I didn't know about the window period so I did an antiagent test on the 21 of sep. it was 0.11 negative.
I'm really very concerned. Didn't sleep the last two nights.
Am I infected? What is the risk? What should I do? Please help.
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Thank you very much. I didn't insert my penis at all. This means that no tests are required as there was completely no risk. Thanks again for your patience.
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480448 tn?1426948538
You NEVER had a risk.  Unless you inserted your penis INSIDE her vagina or anus without a condom, you had NO risk.  You need to let it go!
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I remembered now that my penis touched the surface of her vigina for like 1 second. Does This change anything in the risk? Thank you guys.
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Hi teak,
U mean that my situation has zero risk? And no need for any test? Should I worry about this event? It is so difficult to stop thinking about it.
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See a doctor if you have a concern, your symptoms have nothing to do with HIV.
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This mean the there is zero risk? What if any of the symptoms appeared ? What do you recommend to do?
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To answer your PM, you never had an exposure in the situations you've provided.
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Should I move on? I need to get back my life.
Thank you guys. Im really better now.
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I did give oral sex for few seconds. Is this a real risk?
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Honestly man getting HIV from oral sex you'd have a better chance of getting struck by lightning I honestly do NOT think there has ever been a documented case of HIV transfer from oral sex. You're risk nearly zero only because of oral sex however as i stated above you have no reason to worry. If you anxiety persists feel free to talk to a doctor about what exactly happened their doors are always open.
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Thank you very much. I'm realy better now. So my risk is nearly zero? I can't stop thinking about it.
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Hi I agree that the only risk you had was from the oral sex if you gave it.

That is a little risk, but the other part with condom is no tisk at all.
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exactly. No reason to worry buddy if you still have anxiety about this though like I said test at 12 weeks but theres no point cause you had NO risk
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I used a condom and it was not broken. I tested it once I finished. Do I have to worry? is there any risk for HIV?
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oral sex barely any risk man and if you used a condom you have absolutely no risk. But feel free to test 12 weeks after the encounter for piece of mind. Using proper protection is always smart
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Please answer me as I'm realy v.concerned
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