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HIV Counseling
Hi, Just to let the people that previously responded that I have sought therapy for my fear. I am trying to understand that my fear is irrational. I am trying to believe that I didnt have a risk but the doubts and my symptoms maybe stress induced (chaffed legs, sensitive penis when errect) always bring me back to the same thoughts of HIV and STD infection especially since the Dr. always seems to be telling people no/little risk even for unprotected vaginal sex which is concerning to me... Thanks again. JoeC, Dobber, Mike and everyone else.
My Scenerio:
Massaged clitoris, top of vagina with right hand fingers, no insertion but worried about vaginal fluid traces or possibly blood traces which may have previously occured from her grinding on me with me with my clothes on and hers were off and then me directly touching my penis 30 seconds later with these hands which may have had fluid or blood traces on it. After massaging the clitoris with my left hand for say 30 seconds to a minute, I then put my finger inside her. Vaginal fluid felt on this finger and then lets say 30 seconds later I touched/rubbed my penis for about 30 seconds with my left hand which I previously massaged her clitoris with (worried about vaginal fluid and possible blood traces on these fingers) I breifly touched my penis with my right hand that previously had vaginal fluid from fingering. Since it was a lap dance with heavy grinding (my clothes on) her vagina could have been irriated and could have had blood traces or vaginal fluid. What are the chances that fluid possible blood traces on my fingers could have entered through my penis when I touched it due to possible abrasions or redening during lap dance when I touched it. No cuts on penis but may have been tender.
My Scenerio:
Massaged clitoris, top of vagina with right hand fingers, no insertion but worried about vaginal fluid traces or possibly blood traces which may have previously occured from her grinding on me with me with my clothes on and hers were off and then me directly touching my penis 30 seconds later with these hands which may have had fluid or blood traces on it. After massaging the clitoris with my left hand for say 30 seconds to a minute, I then put my finger inside her. Vaginal fluid felt on this finger and then lets say 30 seconds later I touched/rubbed my penis for about 30 seconds with my left hand which I previously massaged her clitoris with (worried about vaginal fluid and possible blood traces on these fingers) I breifly touched my penis with my right hand that previously had vaginal fluid from fingering. Since it was a lap dance with heavy grinding (my clothes on) her vagina could have been irriated and could have had blood traces or vaginal fluid. What are the chances that fluid possible blood traces on my fingers could have entered through my penis when I touched it due to possible abrasions or redening during lap dance when I touched it. No cuts on penis but may have been tender.
COMMUNITY LEADER
My boy, HIV can't be acquired by an incidence like yours, the doctor's right unprotected sex has a low risk,he's reffering to penetrative unprotected sex (insertion), you didn't have unprotected sex, you don't have to worry about any thing, keep seeing your counselor, stop browsing HIV related info and reading posts here, it'd help you :)
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