HIV Freaking out

[hamdy305]

Hello

i am very anxios and freaking out big time.

the following happens with a non sex worker. you can say a friend

deep kissing
blow job
******* with condoms on

after ejaculation and when i was about to remove the condom i notice some white liquid on the outer surface of the condom. i was not and could not be sure is the condom broken or was this some of her fluids.
my semen seemed intact inside but i did not examine very well before discarding the condom

i am scared to death from HIV and/or the chances of her getting pregnant

i know she did VDRL and HIV tests about 3 month ago and all was normal. but not sure if she had sex with someone during the past 3 months or not

appreciate any help

thanks a lot
Hamdy

[CurfewX]

You may be exposed to HIV if you:
1) Have unprotected (no condom) penetrative anal or vaginal sex, OR
2) Share IV drug equipment with other IV drug users.

If the condom had broken, you would have known.  It is very obvious when they break.  Nothing you did put you at risk for HIV.

[hamdy305]

thanks for the answer i am still new to all intercourse and no experience at all with condoms. so you condom cannot leak? cannot have a small crack? you mean if it gives way it will be like a ruptured plastic bag and the fluids will fully come out of it or such?

thanks again  

[Claire_MHModerator]

A condom with a hole or crack will break when used.  Yes, you would know if the condom failed.  Since you didn't notice it, it didn't happen, so you were protected..  Protected sex (using a condom) prevents you from being infected with HIV.

[hamdy305]

can u reply me please

thanks

[hamdy305]

i think the system removed the word S E X FROM the above

i wanted to say that i had an intercourse with the girl