HIV Oral Sex

[mrscrd]

Hello

I am scared that i might be exposed to HIV.

I had unprotected insertive oral sex and protected anal sex as the top with a transexual whom i think might be infected with HIV (not sure). About 10 days after so i had a little cold. Its been 6 weeks now and i am really concerned about the situation. I am very scared that i might have HIV. I am also circumsized and i didnt *** during the oral sex. I had no cuts and i also washed my penis after the intercourse.

Please tell me about the risks.

thanks

[SSK2007]

insertive oral  NO RISK

[hopeless4now]

You had protected anal sex (so long as the condom did not break), so that means you were protected. Your only other exposure was unprotected oral, which is considered very very low to no risk. Based on this I would not be worried. However, if you want to calm your nerves, a single antibody test at 6-8 weeks is about 95-98% accurate (% of people who will test+ at this time). You are already there so you could test now for a pretty reliable (but not conclusive, that is 3 months) result. I believe you are ok.  

[negative_777]

you are no risk...giving or insertiving oral sex just single time is consider to be no risk,you need't to test,if you often do this you need to take test usually...

[mrscrd]

thank you very much for your comments. i will take the test during the next week. i need to calm myself i cant sleep at nights. the reason im so scared is bcs my girlfriend got sick after a week we had sex and she also had fever. and now we both have sore throat. i hope its just bcs of the cold weather. thanks again...

[mrscrd]

I am a 23 yo heterosexual male. On the 11th of November 2007 I have made a big mistake and had a sexual intercourse with a transexual sex worker in holland just because of my curiousity. First i had unprotected insertive oral sex. She asked me if I wanted condom or not, unfortunately i said no. After a while she asked me if i wanted to suck her, I was curious and I accepted. It was extremely small so i tried to suck it with the balls. As soon as I sucked it she screamed out and pulled herself back. then she told me not to use the teeth. It was my very first and last time and it didn't last long. I kind of spat out some juice from my mouth it was something like saliva and precum. I didnt see anything red. The problem is that, I had a little cut on the cheek in my mouth. I couldnt spit out everything, but i didnt continue the oral sex either. then i had protected insertive anal sex with her, washed my penis and left. i washed all my body and mouth about 4 hours later. i had no cuts on my penis
and i am circumcised.

In a week or 10 days I had a short lasting flue with fever. I also remember having terrible headaches for 1 or 2 days. I had diarhea (diarrhea) for a few days aswell. I started feeling like my skin is very sensitive. My hands hurt (very little like burning and sometimes its tingling) on the elbows. I know the weather is cold now but it feels different. My throat got sore a week ago then it got swollen. And now i have 2 big pimples on my face. From time to time I have short lasting muscle or bone/joint aches. I started having shivers at night even though im awake late night I have it, its like shaking from inside. I really dont know what to do. I just rewrote the mesage because i just throwed up. I am very scared its been exactly 2 months. If I take a test will it be accurate? please tell me the risk level I am very scared.

[troggs]

Testing @ the 8 week mark will be inconclusive but a very good indication of your projected status as most infected with hiv will be hiv + within either the first 22-25 days or most commonly by the 6-8 week mark. Testing @ 12 weeks or 84 day is still a must for knowing your conclusive status.

[mrscrd]

hi again. I got tested last monday and got my hiv results the day after. They are negative but how accurate is the test on 8 weeks after exposure. Since then my hands got better. The peeling almost stopped and i dont feel as numb as I used to. My sore, swollen throat is kind of better aswell. Did I test negative because the seroconversion wasnt completed?? I am still anxious!! I sleep better now though. And I am not so sure but I think I dont feel as tired as I was feeling last two weeks. Still got some muscle and joint pains. I will get the results of the other STDs  next monday. If I test positive at some other STD, does it increase the risk of having HIV? Finally if I showed all these symptoms and If they were really because of HIV, would I test positive on 8 weeks?? Please answer me coz I am getting very anxious again.

[Teak]

You didn't have a risk, you had protected sex. You didn't need testing. Continue to always use condoms for anal and vaginal sex and you'll be keeping it safe.

[negative_777]

you needn't to take boold test at frist palce,perform oral sex just single time is no risk.if you done it enough you are at a high risk.now you test negative at 8weeks,no more test for.low risk and 8weeks negative is no risk,stop worry,you are negative if you did't perform sex(oral sex) again.move on,no risk for you.

[Teak]

Receiving oral sex is not a risk for HIV, no matter how many blowjobs one gets.

[negative_777]

receiving oral sex is a high risk if you done enough.

[Teak]

Where are you coming up with that info? Where ever you are getting that information it is incorrect.

[troggs]

Always protect your no matter what ANYONE says MRSCRD, your health depends on it, don't test unproven theories my friend, stay on safe, not unprotected as advised. You can't go back in time afterwards, keep the odds on your side, error on the side of caution, every time, no exceptions...good luck to you.

[negative_777]

stop talking oral sex,i'm far away that behavior (sex or oral sex),i don't want to how really risk it is?no more read i do,now i test negative at 12weeks,just let it go,if i still worried,maybe i will take retest at 6mos just calm my fears.

[Teak]

Go post your question on the Dr's Forum. You'll get the same information that I have given you.

[Teak]

Test all you like fears aren't facts.

[mrscrd]

thank you guys but did you read the extended version of my exposure that i posted later in this post. there I explained it more detailed and maybe I cut his penis when I was performing oral sex ( for less than a minute ). Anyway the symptoms are making me anxious maybe I just thought too much about this. Its been in my mind for 1.5 months now and every second I think about it. Hope all these symptoms are because anxiety or something else which is harmless.....

[negative_777]

my situation you knew-performed oral sex on a sex worker(she was not at her period) lasted 5seconds and sex with condom lasted 30seconds,i did't check it broke or not.tested negative at 12weeks,no more test for me?can i move on?

[mrscrd]

thank you guys but did you read the extended version of my exposure that i posted later in this post. there I explained it more detailed and maybe I cut his penis when I was performing oral sex ( for less than a minute ). Anyway the symptoms are making me anxious maybe I just thought too much about this. Its been in my mind for 1.5 months now and every second I think about it. Hope all these symptoms are because anxiety or something else which is harmless.....

[negative_777]

my situation you knew-performed oral sex on a sex worker(she was not at her period) lasted 5seconds and sex with condom lasted 30seconds,i did't check it broke or not.tested negative at 12weeks,no more test for me?can i move on?

[Teak]

It's anxiety and yes I did read all of your thread.

[troggs]

Your in the clear man, it's just guilt based on csw fears is all, many here on the forum go through this, don't beat yourself up MRSCRD just try to re-evaluate any future choices. Reflect on the anxiety this has caused, ask yourself it it's really worth all the stress and then put it behind you because your safe my friend, SAFE! So cheer up...

[mrscrd]

hello again
its been 78 days since my exposure. all the STDs tested negative at week 8. now my skin is getting worse. not only my fingers but my palms are peeling of aswell. I got 2 little bumps on the back of my Tongue and my throat still hurts when I try to swallow. I get pain every day another part on my body. one day its my shoulder the other my knees another its my abdominal area. I always have pimples on my face which I never had. my skin used to be much healthier now my face looks pale my eyes look tired and black. Im sweating some nights also shivering the same evenings. I am not going to toilet asoften as I used to. I eat good amounts but when go to toilet its like I haven't eaten and sometimes i get diarhea (diarrhea). but still it feels like much less than what I eat. I started to believe that Im infected. I mean all these symptoms can't show up all together for another reason. I will go to a dermatologist tomorrow, do you think he will know what's on the back of my Tongue? if I get tested again at 12 week, how accurate will it be? is it better if I wait 3 months exactly?

[LIZZIE LOU]

if it will relieve your anxiety...test at 3 months...it is conclusive!

your "symptoms" have nothing to do with hiv.

[paco9959]

I agree.  Everything I've read supports that your 'symptoms' couldn't have anything to do with hiv (way too early).